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Date Posted: 20:54:22 07/26/06 Wed
Author: Mikki
Author Host/IP: 66-227-249-218.dhcp.bycy.mi.charter.com / 66.227.249.218
Subject: I got another letter today

The therapist from hell will not leave me alone. Last week, I called the office to talk to his secretary about faxing a personality test report to my doctor. At the time I needed it to try to get into the borderline group. I told her that I needed it in a week or so, and I apologized for her having to sift through 10 years of records to find it. I asked her to call me when she found it.

Well, a week went by, well past my doctors appointment which I needed it for, and my doctor said no way to the group because number one, I wasn't borderline, and number two, I am too fragile at the moment to be involved in a group with severly ill people. He suggested a self help group for bipolars. I am going to check into that.

Well Tuesday, I get a call from the therapist telling me that the personality inventory didn't say I was borderline, and did I want him to still send it? I called him back, told him what the doctor said and said that it wouldn't be necessary to fax the report now. Had he gotten to the task sooner, he would have faxed it and it wouldn't have mattered what doctor did with it.

So I get a letter today telling me that I am no longer his client, and there is no reason why we should communicate about anything ever again. Fuck, I already knew that...I talked to his secretary, it was his choice to get involved in that process. He also said that since I have a psychiatrist I don't need to ever call or write or have any communication with him. He also said that I am on my own.....find a new therapist. He said he gave me referrals and if I choose not to use them it was my fault, not his.

This has gotten me pissed off to the nines. I didn't contact him.....I contacted his secretary. I wasn't needing anything from him......I didn't dump my soul out to him, or beg him to come back. To see the words "I'm not your therapist anymore" hurts worse than any knife in the gut could. I did write him a letter back today and let him have it. Told him that if I heard from him again, I was going to the state to file a complaint. I actually already made the call. He can't let go as much as I can't let go.
I hurt so bad......no therapist is working for me.....I have so many unresolved issues with him it isn't even funny. I let loose in this letter today. Never ever fall in love with your therapist....it will kill you in the end.

Thanks for listening,

Love, Mikki

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