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Date Posted: 10:25:40 06/15/06 Thu
Author: Mikki
Author Host/IP: 68-188-189-246.dhcp.bycy.mi.charter.com / 68.188.189.246
Subject: Re: Thank God..the jerk left me alone today
In reply to: Sandy 's message, "Thank God..the jerk left me alone today" on 22:40:41 06/14/06 Wed

I hope he will leave you alone now.....maybe he will get the hint, but somehow I doubt it. You are probably going to have to take it to a supervisor at some point. He obviously is fixated on you, or perhaps he can't deal with rejection very well. Probably has his own issues ya know?

I met a guy back when I was in Harbor Oaks hospital a few years ago . He and I hit it off right away. He was absolutely gorgeous, and I couldn't figure out why he was interested in me. I was off the wall at the time because I was in the hospital. I made the mistake of hooking up with him when we got out.......bad mistake. 2 bipolars in the same room didn't go very well at all. But still, he really had my attention. Same with him. He was 5 years younger than me, and I used to call him my boy toy......LOL. He kept calling me all the time, and although I was married (and he knew that), it didn't stop him from calling my cell phone all the time. I told him numerous times that I wasn't interested in a relationship, but that didn't stop him. We tried to be just friends, but because we had hooked up.....friendship was impossible. I finally told him to leave me alone....he had his life, and I had mine. 2 years had passed and I didn't hear from him. One day out of the blue he called me. He just wanted to tell me that he had gotten better, gotten married, and was a truck driver for a commercial shipping company. He and his wife are leaving Michigan next week to start a life in Nevada. He told me that he never forgot me, and it was because of me that he learned to pull his life together, and he was happy now. I felt good about it.......I'm glad he is happy and I haven't heard from him since. So we both got some closure on it. I made a horrible mistake getting involved with him....I hurt him bad....but at least it all worked out.

It will all work out with you too.....he will either get it, or you will have to do something. Hopefully it won't come to that. Good luck with him.

Love, Mikki

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  • Re: Thank God..the jerk left me alone today -- Zsof, 11:23:14 06/15/06 Thu
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