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Date Posted: 12:14:06 01/17/05 Mon
Author: ts
Subject: Re: Often they just grow out of it
In reply to: Chris 's message, "Re: Often they just grow out of it" on 11:52:20 01/17/05 Mon

Thank you for the inputs friends.
I am gonna discuss this with my wife, and yes, I am gonna show love him a lot, a lot more than the past.
I am gonna have 5 day holiday due to moslim festival here, so will get good time to do it wit no work interfering .I got very similar advice from a colleague of mine, who also advised telling bed time stories, and like u said, talk to him a lot without under estimating his grasping power.
Anyway More spanking is ruled out...
Thanks alot
God bless
>Often kids will just grow out of the tantrum phase.
>
>Good you mention the tantrum phase. I heard it from
>many parents, and many had warned us, but I totally
>forgot about it because my son somehow seemed to have
>skipped over it. The tantrum phase is usually exactly
>at the age of your son, 3 years! In German we call it
>the "Trotzalter" (phase of defiance). If you Google
>for Trotzalter, you will find a whole lot of books and
>even whole websites about this phenomenon. Probably
>there are also many web sites in English.
>
>So maybe it is not even a deeper underlying problem of
>your son like jealousness, but only a normal
>psychological phase that shows that you child is
>developing self-confidence.
>
>Anyway, you should not take that as a cheap excuse to
>simply do nothing about it, but also search for other
>reasons. Maybe the Trotzalter comes together with the
>increasing awareness of being not loved so much as his
>sister, and this is just too much for him.

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