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Subject: Re: jealousy ?

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Deb

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Date Posted: 11:40:09 11/18/04 Thu
In reply to: chocolate 's message, "Re: jealousy ?" on 23:35:39 11/16/04 Tue

>Hee,
>
>When I was in my worst time of ana I believed
>everybody was trying to get me to eat because I was
>thinner than they were, my parents, my friends simply
>everybody. I really believed that they ate stuff to
>demotivate me.
>Let me tell you, that is probably not the case, ED's
>make you mistrust people. Dont give in to it, there
>are people who care for you, they dont want to hurt
>you.
>Sometimes that is the whole idea of the ED, that you
>dont believe that people care for you so with
>everything they do, you assume they have some kind of
>hidden agenda.
>Anyway, try to relax a little, your mom is not
>jealous, she just wants you to eat something you like,
>because she cares.
>
>Hope this helps
>
>Chocolate

Rita, I absolutely agree with Chocolate. Paranoia generally comes with the territory of ED's and addictions. I've felt the same way, too. Especially since my mom has always had the 'extra tire around the middle'. I'm sure she just doesn't want to see you sick and everyone who is not eating disordered will say you need to eat to be well. That's all. Hope that makes you feel a little better.

Deb

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