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Subject: Sorry, meant to post this under the other subject.... Author: oops! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:55:43 10/27/04 Wed In reply to: Good luck to you both! 's message, "Angela & Kim, You will be missed. It is sad when anyone chooses to leave the system...for everyone. You guys are great and so are your queens. But I would also like to add that although, I can understand your reasons for leaving, I do have to disagree with you about something. My daughter was a contestant in the state pageant and she had fun! In fact, she was surprised at how much fun she had. She did not think it would be as much fun as it was. And she told me this on the phone before finals nite, so it had nothing to do with where she did or did not place in the pageant. However, she did make the finals and she was very natural and very much herself! So I really don't understand that part of what you wrote. But I do wish you well and hope to see you and your queens back at state!" on 08:51:32 10/27/04 Wed [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date I don't think people are reading this message properly. Here is the quote about fun "It is so competitive now, there is so much tension and pressure, the girls are so focused on winning that I think some of them are forgetting to just have fun and enjoy the experience". Notice the word some instead of all. In terms of the natural thing I kind of agree. There were a lot of pageant patty's in the semi's (NT) daytona fan 09:13:39 10/27/04 Wed I don't think you are reading the respone properly. The person was supportive, just didn't agree with the implications that the pageant was so competitive that it was hard to have fun and that the finals were made up of girls who were not prepared to be "natural". I read it the same way and I also disagree. It is possible to have fun and to make the top 15 by being natural and yourself. (NT) -- sorry, 09:43:22 10/27/04 Wed Where in that quote did it say that it was "hard to have fun"? I think you guys really do not understand what is being said, she never said it wasn't fun. She never said that the top 15 wasn't natural. I think you are just reading pieces of the sentence and concentrating on one or two words instead of reading them in context. (NT) -- daytona fan again, 11:21:39 10/27/04 Wed "No, the lack of placement at state just made us realize that we really don’t belong. We firmly believe in preparing our girls a certain way. We stress being natural, being 100% comfortable with who you are, open & outward, etc. Some of our girls pick it up easier than others. Some girls ignore it all together. The Top 15 confirmed what we were already suspicious of; the state pageant is looking for something that we will never teach." (NT) -- I don't know how else you would read that!, 11:47:35 10/27/04 Wed "We all understood that it was a competition but the fun is what kept us coming back. After helping out with the Miss pageant last summer and having contestants in the Teen pageant this fall, I think the pageants have gotten away from that. It is so competitive now, there is so much tension and pressure, the girls are so focused on winning that I think some of them are forgetting to just have fun and enjoy the experience." (NT) -- and please explain this for us too, 11:50:38 10/27/04 Wed