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Date Posted: 17:16:26 11/25/13 Mon
Author: Texas friend and therapist Mandy
Subject: Re: If you have been following my battle with cancer over the past 25 months, you need to see this. You need to read this.
In reply to: Ravenbeauty 's message, "If you have been following my battle with cancer over the past 25 months, you need to see this. You need to read this." on 07:39:04 11/25/13 Mon

Dear darling Raven,
You are brave beyond measure. I remember when you spoke about having had a stalker. Well, I did too, and he almost killed me, and he changed my life FOREVER. I will never feel completely safe again in my own home, and it's in a gated guarded community and we have an extensive home security system with backups built in. I KNOW, I KNOW why you use a nickname with your posts, my dear. I cry with you for the hurt that those of us who have been stalked, have been hunted down like DOGS and often have been hurt physically, run off from our jobs, have moved to other towns, only to have the stalker show back up and rape and hurt us beyond belief.

I lived it, and I know you should definitely use a nom de plume rather than your real name, which I do not need to know.

Raven, this person did not HURT you. Words are said and the hateful move on. Picture the hurt and the hate as a big balloon- you choose the color- and hold just the string of the balloon. Let all your hurt and hate go into the balloon. It gets larger and larger as you let go of your hurt. When the balloon is fully expanded, JOYFULLY let it go and JOYFULLY let go of the negative feelings. OK? Will you do this exercise for me?

I have used it many times as a therapist and it has power over evil. Cast out the demon. Literally, send them heaven bound in your mind. Good overcomes evil. :)

Raven, with the news of the encroaching growth of the Angiosarcoma, maybe you need additional sedation just for a bit. Just to get your sea legs back. Please talk to your doctor about your ongoing issues with pain control and the worry over the new growth of your Angiosarcoma.

None of us were put into this world to suffer one minutes' worth of pain with cancer. There are SO MANY drugs which alleviate pain and anxiety and do not turn a person into a zombie. Please find things which will work for you so you can relax and enjoy every day leading up to the New Year.

I am praying for you, my sister. God is sufficient unto all our needs, and He sends people to help us a lot more than Satan sends people to hurt us.

Wishing you a blessed Thanksgiving and holiday season.
Mandy

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[> Re: If you have been following my battle with cancer over the past 25 months, you need to see this. You need to read this. -- jordan, 05:42:43 11/26/13 Tue [1]

raven I take care of my medically fragile sister--both parents have passed on. For the last 6 years i never know if she will make it from one day to the next.. I only concentrate on the positives in life.. The birds, the cats that play in our backyard...I have neighbors that look down on myself for taking care of her...But does any of them help me out.. never...My point is if people want to say bad stuff about you.. they have a very empty life...I would just concentrate of the positive stuff in your life...You need your energy and strength to make through each day..


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