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Date Posted: 17:04:53 04/04/13 Thu
Author: Sandra McManus
Subject: Re: 2nd Message from John 3/31/13
In reply to: GoodWillTalking 's message, "2nd Message from John 3/31/13" on 11:35:44 04/01/13 Mon

I have been coming here to check up on Raven for over a year now and as a Cancer Survivor, I understand the devestation of losing a trusted Oncologist. Someone at that practice,knows where her doctor went. If one of the nurses that Raven knows is still there, I would take her/him aside and tell them that this doctor was Raven's "face of hope" and she is having a really difficult time not knowing how to get in touch with him. Ask them to get a message to him at least. I am amzed that this practice doesn't understand the importance of this request. One time my Oncologist told me that he was planning to retire soon and that he wanted me to meet another of his doctors and I let him know that I couldn't do that and so he stayed with me until I was several years cancer free and he still calls me once in a while to check in.

It's important to feel that you have control in your treatment since you so little control over what is happening in your body. Please pursue this and get really assertive with these people or have someone you trust to do it for you.

I am also wondering if you might discuss with Raven some stronger drugs until her wrist can heal. I was on morphine for a short period of time when the pain was at it's worse. She won't have to be on it foreverbut she needs something to take the edge off for at least a little while.

All of my prayers are with you and Raven now. Blessings to you both.

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[> Re: 2nd Message from John 3/31/13 -- Hannah ((((healing light and love)))), 23:57:59 04/04/13 Thu [1]

Dearest John,

I agree with Carol's reply (above) - there will be a way that you can locate that doctor. If he has had to move far away from where you are, do ask him to please refer you to another doctor in his field. If he praises the doctor who has replaced him, then that should help to put precious Ravenbeauty at ease.

(((sending Ravenbeauty healing light and love)))
Hannah


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[> [> Re: 2nd Message from John 3/31/13 -- Louise, 00:18:17 04/09/13 Tue [1]

God, I would be devastated too about losing the doctor, but most likely he will continue to be affiliated with the same hospitals so maybe you can reach him through there. Here are some other ideas:

You can find people, addresses, telephone, e-mail addresses, etc. for a $6.95 fee.

http://www.intelius.com/people-search.html

http://www.whitepages.com/person

Heck, write him a letter, go knock on his door, if he is not working, ask him for a reference and ask him to talk to a future doctor.

Try
http://www.healthgrades.com/oncology-directory

http://www.scripps.org/physicians/find


John, I can't say enough about you, I wish you all the best in life.

Raven, The longer we dwell on our misfortunes, the greater is their power to harm us.

No matter what, don't lose hope. Sometimes God switchs us in another direction for a reason.


May God hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort you. You and John need to think positive as a team along with the thousands of people who love you.

Watch a movie that makes you laugh. Go sit outside and enjoy nature, even for 5 minutes. Spring is the time for new life. Soak in the positive energy abundant in nature.

Many blessings.


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