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Subject: Re: grandad

Author:
zenwind

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Date Posted: 9/01/07 21:23
In reply to: sam spaniel 's message, "grandad" on 8/01/07 20:08

*big hug* sam. I know how those dreams go, they are bittersweet. You know they are at peace and happy but it also makes your long for them more. My beloved soul mate of a grandma died 16 years ago, it was her birthday on 5th Jan and the pain filled my heart even though I know she is at peace (I have tears now *sharing the sadness together*).

We are with you lovely Sam, the pain does lessen with time but the love stays and grows in time too.

hugs and love
zenwind

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Re: grandad

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whitewolf
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Date Posted: 10/01/07 2:06

"the pain does lessen with time but the love stays and grows in time too."

SO beautifully put zenwind, and I agree. Sweet Sam ((((hugs)))) it will get less painful, as Pilgrim said, it hasn't be that long, and especially at this time of year (celebrations mixed up with long dark, cold days) it can be hard to deal with. We are all here for you.
Perhaps growing a plant / shrub / tree special to them and tending it and watching it grow will help you. Remember you can chat to them any time / any place - but you know they wouldn't want you to be sad and hurting.... you are a loving, beautiful and strong woman - things will get better sis.
Extra big hugs and blessings. I love you. x

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