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Subject: Re: can i ask for some advice please?
Author: sam spaniel	[ Next Thread \| Previous Thread \| Next Message \| Previous Message ] Date Posted: 26/10/07 11:39 In reply to: samuel spaniel 's message, "can i ask for some advice please?" on 23/10/07 17:04 he text me last night to ask if it was over..... i just ignored the text.... did i do the right thing? [ Next Thread \| Previous Thread \| Next Message \| Previous Message ]

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heather
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Date Posted: 26/10/07 21:30

Oh Sam,
if i was an agony aunt and reading this my advice would be.......move on. Easy for me to say i know, it sounds to me that you have carried this man for long enough, and trust me when i say it never gets better, the abuse. So do something for you and live your life. Maybe its time. I always think things come along when you need them. Take it all slowly, but do it for you. As for the fear of repercussions all i can tell you is to keep up your guard, i always found the best thing to do was no contact at all otherwise there is always a situation of trying to talk you into something (moods can change very quickly, not always nice either). I wish you all the best in the world honey, be strong, be safe and be happy, love you, heather.xxxxx
P.S. I love this quote:
LIFE..........
Life is NOT a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive, well-preserved body. Better to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, favourite drink in the other, body used up, totally worn out & screaming �YES! what a ride!
P.P.S.
Always trust your gut instinct too!

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