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] Date Posted: 29/08/07 13:36 Dont really know how to put this one..... For those of you who have known me for a while, you might remember me goin through a really bad patch with my partner. Well, I seem to be back in the same position, only this time it is different. We have been broke up for over 2wk now and apart from the constant heartache, I do realise that this time it is over for good and this happend just 5 days after she agreed to marry me.... Wot it is, is that I want to find people that share my pagan interests ( no relationship-i will always love my ex). It was my ex that got me into this pagan way of life and I know of no other to carry it on with.... How do I do it, im a typicle Librian and my scales are so out of balance it scares me. Can anyone help. Newy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 30/08/07 3:21 Dont know how to say this but...WOW....how things can change!!!! The lass and I are back together, must be the power of the garden. Back intouch shortly. Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: sam spaniel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 30/08/07 18:39 Wow Newy!!! (good to see you !) things do happen quickly don't they. can i ask, is this the lass that you broke up with in the first instance? which ever way, i wish you both the very best of luck and lots of happy blessings are winging their way to you right at this moment!! love sam xxx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: jade [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 31/08/07 8:57 relationships are a mystery to me im afraid, its a constant battle of thought, wanting to please someone else yet not wanting to be a doormat, wanting to just be happy but not wanting to settle. i think in all my years here, i still have not really come to any concrete answers regarding relationships. people are too fickle. that being said, im in a relationship now lol, one day at a time and keeping it calm, seems to be the best thing. i hope you and your partner are happy newy. blessings. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 31/08/07 21:29 jade, sam, everyone. gwtting back together with the person you truely love is so amazing.... if you caon mke it last. this ime it didnt and i cant really take no more. love to you all Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 31/08/07 22:14 Whitewolf The order I just received today was awsome. Cheers mate. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: whitewolf [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 3/09/07 18:22 Hi Newy - sorry I'm late coming in on this, you've been in my thoughts though... how are you doing? (((hugs))) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/09/07 13:56 Dont know how to put this to you guys, but that little touch of happiness lasted only one day. I aint gona bore you all with the grim details because this time , enough was enough. I am utterly devastated by this and I am trying to come to terms with it. Night times in bed are killing me as the stress has set off my migrains when i am trying to sleep. My heads totally mashed. Love lite n rainbows to you all. Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: whitewolf [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/09/07 14:33 I'm sorry to hear things aren't so good right now Newy... sending calming soothing energies - anytime you need to shout or talk, you know where I am. Blessings x [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: zenwind [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/09/07 15:31 Newy: **hugs to you** [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Willow [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/09/07 20:34 Newy, I realise I don't know you, but having read your recent posts, I do know you are hurting very much. I hope you find some peace soon. Warmest thoughts to you, Willow x [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 10:19 Thanks guys. It is hard and not sleeping aint helping. My ex is developing a horrible evil streak at the moment been abusive to both me and my children. She use to be the most loving Pagan child i have ever met and the change in her has shocked me greatly. She does have a nasty past, and i do hope in time she will get it sorted, the only problem, is that she is so head strung, i believe she will never let her past go and i find this so sad. I have always loved her and i always will, but it is making me ill. Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Earth-Fire [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 10:32 Hunny things sound awful for you at the mo. But i truly believe things happen for a reason. Maybe the pagan Goddess of your dreams is over the next rainbow. This will make you stronger, pain has a knack of doing that. And you will (in the end) get a lot from this. Now I realize you love her very much, but her being awful to you and your children is not acceptable. I'm sure she hurts to but anger directed at you and yours is not positive for anyone. Lots of us have awful pasts, this is not an excuse to mow people down. I find lavender really helpful for headaches and aid for sleep. I'm thinking of you and hope the pain start to lessen for you soon. That empty space that hurts will be filled with love from someone who deserves you and your children. In the mean time healing hugs and surport xxxxxxxxxxx Earth-Fire [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 10:39 Thanks Earth-Fire. Think its the breaking down in tears every now and then that gets to me. Thankfully not infront of my kids. Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Willow [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 13:24 Hi Newy, It's good to be strong for your children, but everyone needs to cry now and then, so don't worry about that, it just shows you're a loving, feeling person. In my experience, through really bad times, children are the best healers of all. Take inspiration from them and be kind to yourself. Wishing you better days ahead Newy, have faith in yourself! Blessings, Willow xx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Earth-Fire [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 11:45 There is nothing wrong with crying it's a release. Grief will give way to anger soon. Then finally expectancy, bit of a roller coaster on the way though :(. Wish i could say something to make you feel better. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: katie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 16:30 Hope all works out for you. Blessings Katie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Wolfsdream [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 5/09/07 19:00 Newy, I'm sorry to hear things have not worked out for you and that your now going through such pain. It will pass and things will get better. I'm sure we have all been there. Such events are, sadly, part of life and it is only after, sometimes a long time after, that we see how we grew by going through such painfull times. Best wishes to you and don't be a stranger in the Garden. Wolfie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: sam spaniel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 6/09/07 22:19 i want to give you a cuddle and let you lean on me and sob all you need to. feel free to email me newy, if you need someone... there are plenty of us here to listen, i'm so sorry. i want to make it all better for you. bless you and your children. may you find peace to sleep through a night .. i do hope your migraines get a little better at least, i know what it is like to cry so hard that you give yourself a migraine, and there is just nothing you can do about it. newy, i feel for you, if you need to chat, email me. blessings and love sam xxxxx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: newy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 7/09/07 12:15 Sam, thats so sweet. Its hard down here as I dont really have anyone to talk to so I have things going round my head constantly. Kids are away this wkend and I am dreading been on my own, to many memories. Would mail you but i dont know your e-mail. Newy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: sam spaniel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 7/09/07 17:49 just click on my name next to this post newy, i'm here x [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |