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Subject: Re: everything for a reason


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raewytch
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Date Posted: 2/08/07 10:48
In reply to: jade 's message, "everything for a reason" on 2/08/07 8:37

jade - you sound like such an empathic person. You also sound like a really good friend - you care so much about your friends and want only the best for them. It sounds very much to me like you are a bit too open at the moment and all these situations are dragging your own energy down too much. Thats not to say you cant be sympathetic and supportive of your friends but perhaps you need to strengthen your own aura/personal space. To be an effective friend and support, you cant allow things to drag you down too.
now as to what you were pondering on. yes, you are right, sometimes there is no answer as to why people go through what they do. I do believe we have partly chosen to experience certain things in our lives to develop and learn from, and they can certainly be hard to experience.

Its interesting that you have had so many people with fertility problems in your circle of friends at the moment, and also some with relationship problems. Perhaps there is a message here for you too. Not necesserely about relationship or fertility problems that you might have, but some message or signpost for you to think about. Think about what the message might be perhaps you are the kind of person who could be involved in healing of these problems or perhaps something else. Im not saying it is anything in particular just suggesting there is a message of some kind here for you too.

Meanwhile try and get more sleep. Look after yourself and build up your own strength. Eat properly and try not to be pulled down by all these sad things around you. Build up your own magical energy circle around you for protection. You certainly sound like the kind of friend I would want supporting me, but you need to be strong to do it.
blessings
rae

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jade
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Date Posted: 2/08/07 16:51

Yes your probably right, I do feel very open at the moment, and it makes me vulnerable. Rest assured though I do take good care of myself otherwise. I think its the "helplessness" of the situation really. There doesnt seem to be anything I can do. Although certain elements of sign watching recently, yes has told me that possibly I could help, but where to start hmm im not sure.

i was thinking also of the signs of fertility, fertility not just of children but of the mind, creativity and the aspect of allowing us to reach into our inner child when we feel hurt or rejected and soothing that inner child without feeling that we are weak.

so yes. its given me things to think about, thankyou rae for your words they were very kind.

jade.

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