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] Date Posted: 15/01/07 16:19 In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "' i love you'" on 15/01/07 14:10 i think love is a behavior and it matters less what someone feels more than what they do. you can say you love someone but would you care for them if they were ill, would you sacrifice for them or translate that feeling into action? if not love is just words, ideals. i think people can act lovingly which we all should but to love someone is to accept them fully. when one has experienced someone saying i love you and then acting in the oppposite way you realise that love is something that can be felt to please you but also not given properly. love can be used to hide and to defend horrible actions. i don't have trouble accepting love when i know it is based on the fact i am really loved. if someone does not know me they cannot love me. do you really love me the same way you love your friends you meet in the pub at night. if you do then i feel you are doing your friends a diservice? if smoeone creates a nice feeling in you, you love the feeling but do you love them if they didn't create that feeling? true love would. thanks for replying and speaking out and risking things by saying what you said. i don't have a problem with love i have a problem with idealism. hope i expressed myself ok have taken ages writing this out so it makes sense. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: sam samuel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 15/01/07 17:01 dear sweetsong. i realise i am one of the people who says...'i love you guys' a lot in this forum... and in my way i do mean it... i have known a few people personally for a whole lot of years here, and i do genuinley love and respect them, others such as lil, paganwolf, pilgrim etc (sorry for those not mentioned) have handed me a lot of wonderful advice which has helped me through some very extreme and difficult times, and in a way have helped me become a stronger person, and a person who can cope with situations which without them i believe i would have still coped but found it more difficult, and stressful,..... so in the time i have 'known' them, i have grown to respect them and love them in my own way. i am sorry if i offend any body by saying 'i love you' here, but i won't stop saying it as i do genuinely respect people. i feel love is sacred and it should be shared among those who care for each other.... everyone here cares for others here , otherwise they would not be in the garden would they?? i have been helped and given advice by some wonderful people here and i hope i have in turn helped and given advice to those asking here too,... share love, don't block it away from you... accept it and take it as a compliment... and yes to your question, if i needed to look after people i tell i love them when they are ill, i will, those people could be dissabled, blinded, have all manner of things happen to them and i would still love them..... i would still look after them.... be there for them... why not? i am a loving person as are many on this forum and my love goes unconditionally to those wonderful people... i can't say any more than that apart from.... to those who will accept it..... i love you guys. and thanx for all the wonderful things you have said and done to support me over the time i have known you xxxxxxx Sam Spaniel xxxxxxx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |