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] Date Posted: 16/01/07 22:36 In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "' i love you'" on 15/01/07 14:10 so happy for you newy!!!! heppy loving, peacefull thoughts making their way to you xx sam x [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: sweetsong [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 17/01/07 13:27 it is a different thing showing someone love, acting with love and loving someone because you are prepared to stand by them through thick and thin for always. for me love is like that which i give my siblings and my parents and will my children. always. i think the words 'i love you' can suggest a devotion. perhaps not among spiritual pagans but in the outside world away from that. it is why you don't say 'i love you' to a new boyfriend until you are SURE you can be dedicated to them!!!!! i just want you to realise that it isn't just me that thinks like this. it is pretty common in life. if i was to tell most of the friends I have that i love them it would be very inappropriate and could end up putting divisions in my way or them avoiding me in future or having them think they owe me something. the only person i knew here briefly was zenwind we are colleagues who worked on a project together. i think she (you) are great zenwind and inspiring and one of the most mature people i have met. but it would be wrong of me to say i love you even though you are great and very loveable. i don't love you like my siblings or parents and as such when i moved to a diferetn place we were in less contact and that was OK. if i had said i loved you then you could have got hurt when you realised my love was in name only. i think i am going to leave this forum as in the world i live in life just doesn't work this way here. if it did i would be fine!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |