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Re: ' i love you'

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whitewolf

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Date Posted: 19/01/07 2:54
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "' i love you'" on 15/01/07 14:10

You make many assumptions sweetsong - please remember we are all individuals, with different experiences and different opinions.
For me, love is not something 'measured' or a method of 'ranking,' and I doubt that anyone could adequately define the term love... it is beyond words. Perhaps it is a connection / a feeling / a belief system all of its own even... but it is certainly beyond mere words.
Why does love need to be limited?
I'm sorry that you feel you are 'the least loved sister and daughter' - please don't let this feeling block yourself in / shut yourself off.
It's a clich�d expression (but like so many 'clich�s' there's a lot of truth in it) : "You have nothing to fear, but fear itself"
Love yourself sweetsong, open yourself up to the beauty of giving and receiving love. I promise you it's worth it.
Blessings
whitewolf

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sweetsong
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Date Posted: 19/01/07 10:51

thankyou whitewolf. my whole life i am made to feel second best. second best as a friend, second best as a daughter, second best as a sister, second best at being a colleague, second best at being someone a person wants to live with, second best housemate. never the number one. perhaps the people i have known because they are not spiritual and are materalists do not realise people are not things with a certain value.

sorry zenwind are you cross you did not reply yet you replied to others? i can get possessive sometimes and got in a hump when i felt i was not as cool as some of the poeple you are friends with. it was all my problems.please dont be mad.

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