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Subject: Re: hurt again

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Lilly from the Valley

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Date Posted: 22/01/07 14:20
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "hurt again" on 22/01/07 9:52

Because you are human sweetsong. Im sorry, but your so called fried isnt really much of a friend if she can be so insensitive.

My advice is to steer clear of anyone that hurts you intentionally. Even if YOU are very fond of them, they obviously get a kick out of upsetting you. Make new friends hun & be around people who make you feel good about yourself and put your faith back in others. One bad apple dont spoil the whole bunch as Michael Jackson very wisely sang in his youth.

You need to focus on your good points (everyone has something so dont even think about telling me you dont!). If you continue to 'hang around' people who treat you in this way, you will only get further and further down the ladder of self esteem and this makes you resort to doing really stupid things that I know you would regret - Ive been there hun, got the tee shirt, wrote the book etc.

Lecture over with - as always, its easy to say and much harder to do, particularly when you are feeling vulnerable.

Take care hun.

Lil

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[> Subject: Re: hurt again

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sweetsong
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Date Posted: 22/01/07 16:05

thanks lil, thing is i don't thing she deliberately meant to hurt me, its just that well maybe friends tell you all the positives about their other friends but don't tell you to your own face about yours so it seems everyone is more interesting to everyone else.

though zenny you said complementary things to me about my humour.

but i hear your words and i feel you are wise.thanks.

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