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Subject: Re: hurt again


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zenwind
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Date Posted: 25/01/07 18:00
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "hurt again" on 22/01/07 9:52

Beautiful post Rowan and I echo your words.

As for livejournal and your reasons for joining it. I cannot see that it will bring you peace. It may be that your interest in being around this guy has an obsessive quality to it - understandable as you are in love with this man. However, being around someone from a distance who is out of reach is going to hurt you more. Sometimes we want to hold on because on some level it feels are efforts will work but in my experience the universe does not work that way.......

It sounds like lurking at that community without joining it is like sitting on the edge of an emotional whirlpool, the longer you stay, it could become difficult to paddle back out sweetheart....

How would it feel to gradually try to let go of this guy and turn towards your beautiful self, beautiful new experiences and wonderful new people?

peace
zenwind

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zenwind
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Date Posted: 25/01/07 18:07

Rowan,

I saw your new post after I posted mine - just wanted to give you a hug so.....

***big HUG***

and thank you for your wonderful words (again).

a deep bow to you my friend

zenwind

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