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Subject: Re: how do you view friendship?

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newy

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Date Posted: 7/02/07 17:11
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "how do you view friendship?" on 7/02/07 17:01

Hi Sweetsong.
Maybe I'm not the person to jump in on this, as I have lost my partner as she chose her best friend over me.. Wot I would say is that all friendships differ. See my best mate would never come before my partner, but we are there for each other if needed. My ex's best friend is a man (think things would have been diff, if he was a female)
Probably wont help, but think you get wot I'm saying.....Hopefully.x
Newy

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sweetsong
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Date Posted: 7/02/07 17:20

"See my best mate would never come before my partner, but we are there for each other if needed."

see this is where i get confused!! spiritually i try to love all family and friends equally and know that blood is not thicker than water family taught me different but i am learning what i think.

but i would feel funny putting someone over someone else completely but also it is nice to feel special. i would treat a partner with a love that is more sensual but the love might be simlar for a best friend just different.

in my path i want to not make some people special cases. it seems to go against what i feel the universe is. harmonious togetherness.

but at the same time i want special friendships. confusing and hypocritic!

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