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Subject: Re: how do you view friendship?

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Ash

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Date Posted: 7/02/07 19:51
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "how do you view friendship?" on 7/02/07 17:01

I know we had a few words before sweetsong, but I think it is just soul types. I am like your friend, myself and my friends are very solitary people. We enjoy each others company, but we spend more time alone doing our own thing that with each other. I think maybe if you try to mix two personality types that are really different, one being a lonewolf and one being a packwolf then it might not work.
Besides, if you get too close to people it just makes it hurt alot more when they leave.

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sweetsong
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Date Posted: 8/02/07 10:54

thanks ash!! is helpful what you said and made me think that perhaps i am attracted to thoughtful intreverted types as they are so different to me (i am a bit loud and dominating insecure maybe)? but as an extorverted type i expect them to want to be around me lots socially and then get hurt when they don't want me to call/text/go out all the time. bit of a dillema as party people also don't satisy me mentally but they are there for me socially. OH NO!!!

and yes it does hurt when people leave and everybody does in the end!!

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Author: gaiangrub [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 8/02/07 17:27 u r smarter than you think Sweetsong consider that people are different as are your needs. perhaps cognitively recognizing this you can protect yourself from hurt by knowing what to expect from certain types of personalities. hoping 4 ur happiness gaiangrub [ Post a Reply to This Message ]