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Subject: Re: how do you view friendship?

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zenwind

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Date Posted: 8/02/07 18:02
In reply to: sweetsong 's message, "how do you view friendship?" on 7/02/07 17:01

Hi

The lack of words to actually describe my relationships to people can be a little bit frustrating! Saying that labels do my head in anyway so maybe I should just not speak....tee hee however......

Varies person to person. I love to see friends be their true selves around me and then our friendship develops accordingly to our own natures together, evolving over time.....evolving uniquely between the two of us and our needs to keep us safe and happy together.

It does not make sense to me really to have a 'best' friend as that could involve comparisons and it seems impossible to me to compare people who are unique unfolding manifestations of life. And could never compare people I love. There are no degrees in love. And at least from my viewpoint I am not sure the universe works on comparisons either.

Caveat to that am content to use the term best if meaning 'close' friend. I know it means a lot to some of my friends to use the term 'best' and I understand that. Again, it is a person to person thing.

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Author: sweetsong [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 12/02/07 10:21 wish i had the attitdue of you guys. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]