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] Date Posted: 15/01/07 23:13 In reply to: sam spaniel 's message, "snowtiger" on 14/01/07 18:25 My Whitewolf.... you always seem there when i need you most ((((hugs)))) SNOWTIGER JUST CALLED AGAIN, THE POLICE ARE GONE NOW, BUT THE LANDLADY'S PARTENER IS GOING BOLLISTIC (sorry caps!!) because snowy also reported something about them to the police which will almost certainly get the pair of them done for fraud!!! (obviously can't go in to detail) now i have made snowy promise me he will try to stay calm... yhe said he will, but i can see things getting messy as he has a temper and i'm the only one (when i'm there) who can calm him, i'm wearing his cross he gave me .... i hope it will send him inner stringth to cope with this situation calmly. i can't lose him. they are horrible people who he lodges with and have ganged up on him to push him out for quite a while now, he wants to get out but he has stuff to think about (eg: furniture etc ) and it's not so easy finding a place to lodge when your land lady refuses to give a good reference to the new landlord/lady!!. it sounds like the odds are against him, i will stick by him, i'll fight tooth and nail for him, i'll stay strong for him, i'll defend him, we draw strength from each other we belong together, but!(and yes there's a but) it's such a difficult situation. the atmosphere in the house is nowhere near calm, even at the best of times. he needs to get out. i don't know what i can do now, he's just on the phone to me now.......he is calm............... he has spoken to the police...........they noted he was calm..........the land lady told the police they wanted snowy arrested but the police wouldnn't do anything..... but he says all is ok at the mo.... xxxxx sam xxxxx [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Lil [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 16/01/07 9:25 Poor Sam You need to calm down hun or you are going to make yourself ill. You have gone through so much over the past 6 months or so, I cant say I am not worried about you. Snowtiger will be fine - the police arent stupid and Im sure this isnt the only incident they have come across where people are being manipulative and trying to get others into trouble. He has done the right thing and wont get arrested without any real evidence - hearsay doesnt have much clout. I realise how much you obviously love Snowtiger and of course, you must support him and be there for him, but dont feel you have to fight his battles for him. I am a little concerned that you fear losing him - if he loves you, you wont. Being needy of another can become very stifling and even turn people away from you eventually - please allow him some space also. Dont get me wrong, I understand he is obviously in a very difficult situation and feel for him genuinely, as I do you. But things do have a way of working themselves out and no matter how much we try, it wont change anything. Try not to stress yourself over this too much (yes, I know its easier said than done) but try to look at things as if it were happening to someone else. You may see things a little more clearly. If Snowtiger is so unhappy living where he does, and has been for some time, I cant understand why he hasnt left already. I would have been long gone by now and not allowed them to make me feel the way they have him. Stay calm and look after yourself Sam. Thinking of you and Snowtiger and hoping things are resolved very soon for you both. Lil [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |