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Subject: Re: snowtiger

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Lil

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Date Posted: 16/01/07 9:25
In reply to: sam spaniel 's message, "snowtiger" on 14/01/07 18:25

Poor Sam

You need to calm down hun or you are going to make yourself ill. You have gone through so much over the past 6 months or so, I cant say I am not worried about you.

Snowtiger will be fine - the police arent stupid and Im sure this isnt the only incident they have come across where people are being manipulative and trying to get others into trouble. He has done the right thing and wont get arrested without any real evidence - hearsay doesnt have much clout.

I realise how much you obviously love Snowtiger and of course, you must support him and be there for him, but dont feel you have to fight his battles for him. I am a little concerned that you fear losing him - if he loves you, you wont. Being needy of another can become very stifling and even turn people away from you eventually - please allow him some space also.

Dont get me wrong, I understand he is obviously in a very difficult situation and feel for him genuinely, as I do you. But things do have a way of working themselves out and no matter how much we try, it wont change anything. Try not to stress yourself over this too much (yes, I know its easier said than done) but try to look at things as if it were happening to someone else. You may see things a little more clearly.

If Snowtiger is so unhappy living where he does, and has been for some time, I cant understand why he hasnt left already. I would have been long gone by now and not allowed them to make me feel the way they have him.

Stay calm and look after yourself Sam. Thinking of you and Snowtiger and hoping things are resolved very soon for you both.

Lil

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Author: Pilgrim [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 16/01/07 15:44 Sorry I'm a bit late on this but Sam hang tight. Things will blow over. Sending peaceful energy to both of you. Pilgrim. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]