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Date Posted: 20:40:08 05/29/09 Fri
Author: Kashmanik
Author Host/IP: 82.28.217.169
Subject: I always think you've got to be quite philosophical about stuff like this...
In reply to: andypandy 's message, "Ok I think I may have fucked things up royally here" on 19:43:45 05/29/09 Fri

If this is the kind of guy who you're going to stay with for a long time, he'll be the kind of guy who'll understand that some things can't be helped, and know that of course your first priority right now has to be your Dad.

If he doesn't understand, then it's his loss.

Sorry, I know that sounds really harsh! But it's not like you didn't have a damn good reason on both occasions to cancel. I'd be on his side a bit more if you just couldn't be arsed to go out!

*hugs*

Hope your Dad's alright.

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[> [> See, everything you just said is what I'm saying to myself in my head -- andypandy, 21:29:52 05/29/09 Fri [1] (82.30.76.72)

I know you're right on every count I'm just so conflicted, I thought he would be more understanding. I can't just abandon my Dad when he's like this, he's starting to be very forgetful and confused, not all the time, most of the time he's fine but its a bad day today so he takes priority every time as far as I'm concerned.

Nice to hear from you, thanks for your thoughts and input, how are you doing?


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[> [> [> I'm good, thanks! -- Kashmanik, 22:48:10 05/29/09 Fri [1] (82.28.217.169)

Just chilling out alone this weekend, Richard is off visiting family. Getting ready for our holiday (off to Portugal with my side of the family in a weeks time). Should be good!


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