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Date Posted: 19:06:23 12/22/08 Mon
Author: Gabs
Author Host/IP: 83.222.156.224
Subject: Gretch, I feel your pain.

Guess who else has a girlfriend?

Excuse me while I go drown my sorrows in Ben & Jerrys.

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[> Oh no gabs!! -- andypandy, 19:46:24 12/22/08 Mon [1] (82.30.76.72)

so sorry sweetie *hugs*


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[> [> Me too. -- Gabs, 20:10:05 12/22/08 Mon [1] (83.222.156.224)

And HE TOLD ME HE DIDN'T WANT A GIRLFRIEND. I wish I could hate him, it'd be so much easier.


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[> [> [> Yeah it probably would be easier if you could hate him...... -- andypandy, 20:48:13 12/22/08 Mon [1] (82.30.76.72)

unfortunatly we're totally at the mercy of strong emotions like this aren't we? I feel like giving up on men altogether after all I've been through in the last twelve months.

But it's no good is it? don't let them win whatever you do, both you and Gretch deserve someone who will love and adore you unconditionally and won't cheat and lie to you so the best thing you can do is try and forget them, I know its not easy when you've really fallen for someone (tell me about it) but you can do it, I know you can! you should have men falling at your feet right!?

ok, pep talk over, go and do some more stalking if you must!


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[> [> [> [> Thanks Andy -- Gabs, 22:50:07 12/22/08 Mon [1] (83.222.156.224)

I'm trying. I hope I can forget him... or at least find someone else who might speed that process along!


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[> it...is...the WORST! -- gretch, 20:01:42 12/22/08 Mon [1] (24.165.107.66)

because then i sit here and think..."maybe it won't last"...

and then..."maybe it will last"...

"maybe it's just convenient. maybe he's in love with her! maybe he's not in love with her. what does she have that i don't?" and on and on and on. it drives me mad.

i myspace stalked him. *hides face in shame* he talked about her on there. *sigh* and i stalked her. she's 29. woops. i was sorta hoping for the 16 and immature thing. she did NOT look 29. *double sigh*

*bites lip* thing is. he likes to play video games and smoke pot in his spare time. and i...don't. so there's that. she's apparently all dandy about that. and she has more freedom than i do. BUT she's not as smart or funny or sexy or adorable. but...i think i overrate smart, funny, and adorable. *raspberry*

plus too...i honestly might just want him...cuz i can't have him. that's sorta my M.O. i'm trying to analyze if this is true or not. i can't tell.

i'm sorry, gabs. it really does suckity suck suck. *hugs*


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[> [> Word -- Gabs, 20:12:43 12/22/08 Mon [1] (83.222.156.224)

Don't feel bad, I facebook stalked mine. Tried to figure out who his girlfriend might be. If it's the one I think it is, she actually seems really sweet.

Clearly all the pot has fried his braincell, singular. Why is he with her if she's not cute or fun or smart? You can't overrate that!

I hope you want him cause you can't have him, that might be easier. A bit, at least.


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[> Boo! Don't know what to say -- DZR, 00:15:11 12/23/08 Tue [1] (86.146.69.121)

I don't even feel like making a crass joke. Sorry. I don't think this will be any consolation to either of you, but if they don't appreciate you then they aren't worthy of your affection.


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[> [> You can joke if like, maybe it'll cheer me up! -- Gabs, 10:00:59 12/23/08 Tue [1] (83.222.156.224)

Do you think he was playing with me and using the no girlfriend thing as an excuse not to have to tell me that he just didn't want me? Or do you think he was actually honest but then someone better came along?

Either way sucks. I need your perspective, I know it's been awhile but try to think back to your wild twenties! ;p


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[> [> [> In my head I'm still in my twenties! -- DZR, 16:22:13 12/23/08 Tue [1] (86.146.69.121)

I'm sorry to say that the "I just don't want a girlfriend" is generally code for "I don't want YOU as my girlfriend". I know it is in my case. Sorry. It sucks.


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[> [> [> [> I figured as much -- Gabs, 22:59:29 12/23/08 Tue [1] (83.222.156.224)

But I need to hear it straight so I can stop deluding myself... which is why I wish he would have been honest with me from the start!


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[> [> hoping to take my x-mas vacation to snap out of it... -- gretch, 16:32:17 12/23/08 Tue [1] (24.165.107.66)

harden my heart back up and the whole bit. i'm not usually this girly. i'm annoying myself. *smile*

it's fun crushing...until it's not fun anymore. typically.

*wrinkles nose* i didn't know he said that, gabs. i don't enjoy your crush. that's a lil yucky.


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[> [> [> Yeah, I'm trying to think of a tactful way to say ... -- DZR, 17:49:48 12/23/08 Tue [1] (86.146.69.121)

... that I think Gab's crush sounds like a total arse, but I can't think of one so I guess I just won't say anything.


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[> [> [> [> mmhmm... -- gretch, 18:10:28 12/23/08 Tue [1] (24.165.107.66)

i changed "jerky" to "yucky" but i really meant "assholy"...


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[> [> [> [> [> *nods* assholy's good -- andypandy, 18:25:22 12/23/08 Tue [1] (82.30.76.72)

as is jerky and yucky, all three fit the guy perfectly

this really pisses me off the way you've both been treated, I just want slap the pair of them really really hard

you're right about hardening your heart gretch, its the only way to get through it


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[> [> [> [> [> [> Ermmm ... actually Andy -- DZR, 19:09:13 12/23/08 Tue [1] (82.132.136.213)

Before you hang draw and quarter him I do feel the need to point out that gretch's crush hasn't actually done anything wrong. He is allowed to have a girlfriend you know! It just sucks for gretch. Whereas by the sounds of it Gab's guy dicked her around completely.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> sorry -- andypandy, 19:19:31 12/23/08 Tue [1] (82.30.76.72)


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> yes. that's very true. -- gretch, 01:58:21 12/24/08 Wed [1] (24.165.107.66)

he's been great in fact. and hasn't led me on at all. he started dating this chick the my first week of work. just bad timing.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> I agree! -- Gabs, 23:02:16 12/23/08 Tue [1] (83.222.156.224)

At least right now, it goes up and down.

I think Cupid hates the lot of us!


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> He does doesn't he? -- andypandy, 01:05:21 12/24/08 Wed [1] (82.30.76.72)

I think I'll continue as I am now, have fun with no emotional attachments, no heartache.


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