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Date Posted: 06:48:49 11/06/06 Mon
Author: Renata Pessoa
Subject: Re: Decision of Dating
In reply to: Keith Herriman 's message, "Decision of Dating" on 20:04:52 11/05/06 Sun


Hello Keith,

I totally agree with your opinion on this subject. Many people are so desperate to find someone to have a relationship with that they forget it takes time to know if that person is suitable for them or not. Knowing about a person before jumping into a relationship is very important, and it certainly keeps us from spending our energy and time on something that won't last long.

Renata Pessoa


It seems to me that many of the problems discussed
>are caused by people finding out the people they are
>dating aren’t right for them. I think that people are
>dating too many people that they think are right for
>them because they don’t take the time to find out
>about the person or think that the only way to find
>out more about the person is to date. I know from
>personal experience I have saved myself from many a
>crazy lady by finding out more about them first.
>Dating is just a way to get locked into a commitment.
>But if a person spends time their person of interest
>with other friends or even doing things like going out
>for lunch or coffee a person can still find out what
>they would find out if they were dating them. At least
>a person will learn the important basic information
>that will allow a person to make a better decision on
>dating than by just jumping in with no knowledge other
>than they are hot. I believe this will save a person
>from wasting time and money on someone who they soon
>realize is not at all what they were looking for. This
>may also allow a person to look for signs that might
>indicate what their relationship would be like if they
>did go out in the future.
>I believe that just by learning more about a person
>besides first impressions will prevent the problems in
>relationships that may of the people have shared.

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