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Date Posted: 13:44:38 11/07/06 Tue
Author: Lincoln Rondas (Heartbreak free)
Subject: How to avoid Heartaches

When we have had a bad breakup its no use trying to disguise it. If we still have feelings for our ex it is mainly because the breaking up was not agreed on common grounds. The dialogues race back and forth in our minds in attempt to know where, when, and how things went wrong. We often ask ourselves what would have happened if we hadn’t said this or if we hadn’t done that. But unfortunately there are no ifs for an ended love relationship. We face endless sleepless nights; the face and voice that haunt you during the day also haunt you during the night. We cry when we hear a song that reminds us of plans we made together or when we come across a mug where the loved one used to drink from. It is as silly and as easy as that!

We could have avoided the ordeal. We should not have ignored the alarms that kept ringing insistently warning us that something was wrong. It would have been best if we had realized from the beginning that he/she was impatient and often irritable. Maybe, just maybe, if we had paid more attention to the body language that is so genuine, we would have prevented this from going too far.

Next time we fall in love, we should definitely not put all our eggs in the same basket of love It is healthy to keep some thoughts, friends and plans to our ourselves. In case we find ourselves on our own, we will have something to hang on to. It is also relevant not to give in/up our most treasured beliefs and values for the sake of the keeping love together. With that in mind, we leave a relationship standing proud and we enhance the chances of finding a more balanced and long-lasting relationship.

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