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Date Posted: 22:42:51 05/19/08 Mon
Author: iteo
Subject: Re: What do you think?
In reply to: Rana 's message, "What do you think?" on 14:29:25 05/12/08 Mon

>There is this girl who comes to help me doing the
>house work.. actually she does all the housework. She
>comes twice a week, and as I am very busy with my
>work, studies and social obligations.. I leave all the
>work to her. Also, my kids are too lazy to do anything
>around the house.. so we are pretty much dependent on
>her.

Hi Rana

This may be too late, but perhaps you should confront her, but also be willing to forgive it.

She may feel deeply ashamed.

Once confronted, she may deny it. If she denies it, perhaps listen to her defense and if it falls short, then you have your answer.

But if she admits to it, she may turn over a new leaf. Some of the best people have been driven to do things they wished they hadn't. She may even become a truly trusted member of the family.

IF the situation has already been dealt with - can you tell us the outcome?

Good luck!

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