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Date Posted: 10:51:22 06/05/08 Thu
Author: Michael
Subject: Re: (not) Mourning
In reply to: grasshopper 's message, "Re: (not) Mourning" on 14:15:18 06/02/08 Mon

I agree. We tend too much to have expectations as to how you are supposed to feel. There are certain ways to behave of course, thats different...like being their for your Dad, but feelings are totally personal, and they can change.
Ive know people who only really reacted many months later, or not at all.

My father died about 5 years ago. My brother took it badly, even though my father was 90 and had been on his 'last legs' for about 5 years. Ive never seen a body so totally worn out. It hardly effected me. Thats just how it was, how he reacted was fine..for him. How i reacted was fine...for me.

There seems to have been a revival in the past 10 years or so whereby funerals and deaths are to be mourned far more openly, loudly.

Maybe we have become a more emotional nation? Maybe its a bit theatrical for some?

>>You're doing
>>the right thing supporting your dad and that's all you
>>need to do.
>
>Yeah I already thought that was the case to be honest.

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Re: (not) Mourning -- grasshopper, 14:20:11 06/09/08 Mon
- Re: (not) Mourning -- Michael, 16:32:25 06/09/08 Mon