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Subject: Re: the end and the beginning....

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andy

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Date Posted: 21:38:39 01/27/08 Sun
In reply to: Shalah 's message, "the end and the beginning...." on 13:58:02 01/22/08 Tue

Oh, Just get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL!

Well, you know, they say, (whoever the hell they are?)
that divorce is like a death and I believe that.

You are such and awesome person who spends most of her
time caring and loving anyone who comes in contact with
you. Fourteen years ago when you got married you got
married for life. You made a commitment to yourself
and to God and now you find yourself in a surreal
situation with some stranger signing away your broken
dream and great commitment.

You and I have spent countless hours on this subject so
there is no need for me to discuss things publicly except
to say that I know the inside info and the fact remains
you really had no other choice if you wanted to be the
best Mom you could be. That's really the bottom line her
Shalah. Your children are happier and you are in a much
better place in life (the closet is clean). That puts
you in a situation where you can be healthier and in return
be a better Mother to your boys.

I know you know all this and there is no way to diminish
the emotion you feel when the final bell rings. There is
a sense of failure and loss but, ahead lies the bounty.

There is fruit upon the tree and I for one know that you
exhausted all efforts before taking the first step towards
divorce.

I get you so much and I know the feelings that you have
right now. That only solidifies the fact that you are
as special as you are.

No one died! In fact it's time now for a brighter life.

Love ya much Shalah Shalah Shalah,

andy

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Author: Shalah [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 07:27:21 02/03/08 Sun Andy, the light is bright on my path these days. Thank you. And you, better than anyone, know where and who I am. Thank you for introducing me to this person I'm becoming. You being in my corner, glowing soft warmth on my path when it was dark, has made all the difference. Love you! ~Shalah