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Subject: Re: I want...

Author:
Christine

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Date Posted: 18:56:20 10/25/07 Thu
In reply to: Tammy 's message, "I want..." on 15:31:53 10/25/07 Thu

Tammy-Love,

*Soft smile* I don't know what has moved you to write so bitterly, but I can tell you that this feeling of acidity passes and drains to leave us with an empty hole.

See, we all need that kind of uplifting and mending love. Every last one of us.

You know what love is when you look into your children's eyes for that very first time. Remember that feeling - it sustains you when you are feeling bitter and tight. Then remember their first giggle or smile....and feel your own joy. Hold it inside. Embrace it again and again. Love are the moments that hold time back. Love is those moments that heal when you can let go of a perception and can gain a clarity and healing.

You know that saying, "You are love is you"? Love yourself, accept yourself, take pride in yourself, take responsibilities for all the negative as well as positive that you have conceived, perceived and released into your life. When you love yourself, you are loved. By the best person for you. Period. Not many people get that. When you find love, you find it in yourself...and then and only then can you share someone else's.

*Smile* End of lecture/explanation....and therapy? You? Poetry works...

~Hugs~
Me

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Author:
andy
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Date Posted: 07:38:46 10/26/07 Fri

O.K. Tammy, I have the answer and I am sure you
are not surprised at all.

First of all, love means getting naked and
celebrating. It has to do with rain dances
in thunderstorms and spontaneous combustion.

Love mean walking away when staying leads
to bad things. It doesn't insure that it is
forever because someone is ussually messing it
up.

It doesn't carry any weight. It's free and easy
and when you feed it with the right person
it grows to be a strong and healthy entity.

But, for me love means the smile on a friends
face. The story of a child who overcomes great
tragedy to accomplish big things. The union of
hearts in families that learn to express love
without fear or compromise. Love is all around
us all the time. Just because some people are
really dysfunctional and screw up our faith in
it doesn't mean that it needs further definition.
What it needs is better choices from us.

.....and most of all Christine is right so read
her response again.

Dammit the bitch ussually is right except about me.

Then of course she is always wrong.

It's a new day, find a new way, to carry on.

Much love,
andy