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Subject: Re: Full Moon Chaos

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Christine

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Date Posted: 21:12:01 10/26/07 Fri
In reply to: Tammy 's message, "Full Moon Chaos" on 15:22:22 10/26/07 Fri

Tammy,

After reading that story, I am convinced that it is all about "being one of the guys" and not what you thought. But, you gotta stand tough - even if your son is faced with with stiff opposition. He's gotta know that this isn't something that is funny, or even "cool".

I know you're scared (I put myself in your shoes and thought of Kevin - I was scared), but you have to stand firm and let him take the responsibility for his actions, but also letting him know that even if his choice was to do this, you do not approve (nor would you ever) - but it doesn't stop you from loving him and worrying/caring about him. And sweetie, that's all you CAN do, beside maybe getting him a good attorney.

I'm thinking good thoughts and sending positive energy your way (you need it).

~Hugs~

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Tammy
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Date Posted: 05:39:17 10/27/07 Sat

((Christine))

I agree...He does have to face the responsibities..never disputed that. But even if he was just trying to fit in, and he was trying to live up to them, it was a very stupid thing to do, and I'm highly disappointed in him.

All I was trying to say before...and maybe I didn't explain it right, is that knowing my son as I do, I believe, that we unravel the motive to making poor judgement, beside peer pressure and all that is going on in his life. I found it coincidental, and I don't believe in coincidence...that the minute dad started dating this nut...my son began acting up.

Yes, he's got to deal with it..I agree. And I truly believe that he needs to face some other demons as well. I'm not trying to make excuses for him, and I do love him so much, and want him to learn from him mistakes as any parent would want.

((Christine)) thank you so much, and I tell you this..I do not mind your "lectures" at all. In fact...they do help remind me of what I do know..and reinforces it...so..it's a blessing.

Big hugs,
Tammy