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Date Posted: 16:38:39 05/07/08 Wed
Author: Andrew M.
Subject: teenage spanking

My wife and I are raising three terrific kids. We have a daughter 15 and two sons 12 and 10. We decided early on in accordance with the Word of God and advice from our pastor that we would use spanking as a method for correcting our children’s misbehavior. Let me first say that our children are very well mannered but when they are disobedient, they are taken over the knee and given an open hand spanking on their bare bottom. As the head of our household, I started out spanking my daughter but at the age of about nine, for reasons of modesty, I began turning her over to her mom for her spankings. I continue to handle the boys myself though. I am careful never to spank out of anger. When a spanking is in order, I take the boy in question to his room where we have a talk about his misbehavior. I encourage him to participate in the discussion as much as possible to try and get an idea of where his heart is at with respect to repentance. After prescribing the spanking I allow my sons the opportunity of pulling down their own pants. Both of my sons have learned from experience that if they are unable to drop their pants on their own, Dad will do it for them. I spank the same way my Dad spanked me; over the knee with the open palm of my hand. After the spanking I give a few follow up words of advice and leave the boy alone for awhile to cry it out. As for my daughter; I don’t interfere with the method her Mom uses on her. All of our children are growing up to be good kids though so I guess we’re doing something right.

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