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Date Posted: 06:06:44 03/10/09 Tue
Author: Noel W.
Subject: Re: When is someone to old to spank
In reply to: Jo Ann 's message, "Re: When is someone to old to spank" on 08:57:20 01/27/09 Tue

I agree Jo Ann. Sometimes it is when you feel you've 'got beyond' the age for correction that it has its most powerful effect.

I was in mt late teens in the mid 70's. Far too old to be spanked in my view! I was 'going out' with a girl called Mary , a year younger than me. Her Mom, who was widowed, had three other children , all younger again. I knew she spanked them.

Mary had curfew at 11.30 which was very generous compared to many of her, and my friends. One night , however, we decided , quite deliberately, to stay out at a rock concert until the early hours. Of course it was before mobile 'phones , so no call home. Mary's Mom was naturally worried. she rang my Mom , who hadn't a clue where we were. Eventually I rang home just to say I would be very late. My Mom called Mary's who reacted by saying we were selfish little brats who ought to be taught a lesson we wouldn't forget. My Mom concurred, and said she would back Mary's Mom with any discipline she felt appropriate.

When we got home we got the shock of our lives. Mary's Mom ushered us into their dining room where she had pushed aside the table and placed on dining chair in the center of the room. Hooked on the back of it was a rattan cane! Mary told us we were both to be caned for disobedience and thoughtlessness. She told me she had spoken to my Mother.We argued , but without success.

We were given twelve strokes each - really hard on our butts, plus four 'extras' for arguing and sassing her. We were allowed to keep our boxers/knickers on for modesty,( not that they gave any meaningful protection) but had to remove our jeans .At the end of the punishment , despite our age , we were both in tears. But boy was it effective!!!

After that I was always polite and respectful to Mary's Mom. I once crossed her again. I bought a little 'pot' which I shared with Mary. Mary's stash was discovered and once again a whopping was administered, longer and harder than the first, and in this case the humiliation was intense as she did it in front of the entire family to set an 'example'. Believe me to be made to bend over for punishment, let alone cry as a teenager in front of younger children is real humiliation, but in this case fully deserved, and preferable to a Police record!

Nevertheless after each punishment we never committed that offense again. Indeed our behavior improved markedly when we realized this discipline was here to stay regardless of our 'grown up' age. It was never given unfairly : indeed on both occasions we were guilty as sin. After the punishments we were both contrite and apologetic. Mary's Mom had drawn a line in the sand.

Being 'grown up' as a teenager is just a source of pride and bravado. To bring them down to earth once in a while does no harm. Of course it is humiliating and embarrassing , but that is part of why spankings work!





>>You are never too old to spank. My son, age 17,
>started lying to us, playing around with drugs, coming
>in past curfew and basically making poor decisions.
>We grounded him, took his truck away and nothing
>seemed to help. One evening I picked him up from
>school and took him home and made him just pull down
>his jeans and bend over the couch. I gave him a
>spanking he would not forget for a long time. He is
>now 22 years old and about a couple of months ago he
>thanked me for that spanking. He said it saved his
>life. Was it easy to give him this spanking? No, but
>I rather had spanked him then to see him in prison,
>high on drugs,or an alcoholic. My husband and I have
>raised five kids. They all are successful. Yes, we
>believed in spanking if nothing else worked.

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