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Date Posted: 16:36:07 04/03/08 Thu
Author: Mia to MM & JD
Subject: Re: Let's get started. Here's the first smack...
In reply to: JD to Mia 's message, "Re: Let's get started. Here's the first smack..." on 12:33:44 04/03/08 Thu

First of all to answer Master Mike's questions about how I disciplined my own daughter. My daughter is 20 yrs. old now, so there is no disciplining her anymore, but as I said above, when she was very young she would receive a couple swats on her clothed bottom. Like the time she ran out into the road at 3 yrs old. The swats took place right then and there, and I did not drag her to her room and I did not take down her pants. As she got older, my husband and I would just take away privledges or give her a talk that might jog her conscience. One time when she was a pre teen, she was getting so that she was down right mouthy to me. One Saturday morning she mouthed off to me once too many times. I made her go and spend the rest of the day in her room by herself without the stereo or phone. She begged me to let her just leave the house, because her and a couple of other girls were going to get together and go to the mall for a movie. I stood firm on my decision to make her remain in her room all day until dinner time, when she would be allowed to join my husband and I for dinner. She cried her eyes out! I felt aweful, but I knew she needed to pay a consequence for her bad behavior.

JD, I realize that kids developing a fetish from spanking is hit or miss. I believe that my fetish developed because of the way Mom spanked me. Bare bottom. It was humiliating, but as I started to get older, that humiliation turned into sexual feelings. I got so that I would masturbate while I was thinking back on the humiliation of having my bottom bared and forced down over my Mom's lap. The whole ritual made me feel dread, but as I got older, I began to equate those dreadful feelings with sex feelings. Needless to say, my spankings ended by the time I was 10 yrs. old, but I was very confused about my feelings all through my teen years.

I really enjoy spanking, and it's not such a bad fetish, but as I stated above, I was very confused as a teen. I didn't realize that there was so many other people in this world that enjoy spanking. I thought I was the only freak that enjoyed getting punished. Now that I understand better, I wouldn't trade my fetish.

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