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Date Posted: 18:02:48 11/03/15 Tue
Author: Debbie
Subject: I rewrote my childhood

In an earlier post I mentioned the high suicide rate of trans people. The parents on this forum are heroes to me. You are the experts of your children and you are not allowing others to dictate what is best for your kids. You are saving your child's life. Literally. You are,my heroes. I knew I was different as early as 5-6. But I grew up with parents that would not even entertain the idea that being transgendered was anything less than a horrible sin worse than murder. Due to my circumstances I could never transition. Now, 48 years od testosterone have ravaged my body. It would require about 70k worth of surgery. Plus I have never had the benefit of socializing as a young girl. Those life lessons are,priceless. The cruelest part about it is as you get older it becomes exponentially more difficult to resist the drive to transition. It is literally driving me mad. But I have tried so hard to build a life that others would see as normal. If I transition now it would take a wrecking ball to the lives of those that I love the most. I often wonder if it would be better to die known as a dedicated husband and father then to go through the difficulties and expense of transition. You parents that are saving your children from this living hell should be praised. Not condemned. A few months ago in an attempt at self therapy, i wrote a story of how I wish my childhood would have been like. It was a gut wrenching process. I often cried my eyes out as I wrote it. It is about a loving mother that helps her new found daughter embrace her feminity instead of treating it like a disease that needed to be cured like my parents did. If you care to read it, here is the link. http://fictionmania.tv/stories/readtextstory.html?storyID=1446331929274752675

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