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Date Posted: 25/05/24 12:13:37, Sat
Author: Alicia (OP)
Subject: Hi "BNDM" please read inside
In reply to: BNDM 's message, "I’m a so called BNDM and just as disappointed and angry as you all because we have not cheated, stayed away from names and school identities but our custom is mostly CLRG dancers. More inside .." on 25/05/24 8:26:46, Sat

Where did I say that all dress makers are cheats? I didn't. No one said that.

What I said summarized something my teacher told me that was said to her when she raised the issue of costs. Someone from CLRG told her that we as dancers and parents are happy to spend thousands on other things including dresses, so why are we all so angry about fees.

My point was, would we in theory be happy to pay more in fees if we weren't paying so much for dresses.

Sadly yes. CERTAIN BNDMs and the buddies at the top are the ones whove made it this way. No one was ever accusing EVERY dress maker.

HOWEVER you come across as being incredibly sensitive to criticism so perhaps take some time to self reflect and understand why youre getting so defensive? Is it really just that you're over seeing lots of comments about dress makers? Or is there really something you COULD do personally to help the situation but don't want to because you make very good money?

Maybe do some self reflection as to how you'll continue to make money IF, AND YES I MEAN IF AND NOT WHEN AS MANY PEOPLE WANT TO KEEP THE STATUS QUO, things change.

Perhaps you could stop being angry and come up with a line of lower cost dresses? How's that for an idea?

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