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Date Posted: 11:12:12 05/06/10 Thu
Author: Bill to Joel
Subject: Re: Introduction
In reply to: Joel to Bill 's message, "Re: Introduction" on 07:34:04 05/06/10 Thu

Hey Joel. Great to hear from you.

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>
>Thank you for congratulating me and the rest of the
>guys on our baseball team for the recent wins. We've
>added a few more wins and losses to win/lose column.
>
You are welcome. I like to encourage young people in their endeavors and I welcome whatever opportunity to encourage all of you.
>
>So you think I'm good enough to play baseball and
>watch me on TV?
>
>WHOW!
>
You never know.
>
>Thank you for the compliment. I would like to do that
>more then anything, ever since I was a little kid and
>could hold a plastic bat in my hand. I'm going to
>play college baseball, and I have no idea what the
>coming scout is going to say or even if he's going to
>offer anyone anything.
>
You are quite welcome. We shall see what happens when the scout comes.
>
>Our coach was just contacted and nobody said any
>certain person was going to just be looked at, as I
>believe they are coming to look at the entire team and
>any of the other teams in the tournament.
>
>I've dreamed of being a major league baseball player
>since I was a little kid and was told by alot of
>people they thought I showed talent for baseball and
>might be a major league slugger someday.
>
>So we'll see if any of us high school varsity baseball
>players might have talent to satisfy the major league
>baseball world!
>
>As for being on TV, I guess that comes with the job of
>baseball. When I've played on some winning teams I've
>been asked to answer media questions and deal with the
>press and do pretty good and handle myself okay. I'd
>like to give it a shot, if even the chance and I'm
>good enough to. Only God knows that answer!
>
>So you think I bamboozled my dad to paddle me back in
>Dec. 2009 and I think I'm a role model?
>
Yep. That was real smoothe the way you went about it. REAL SMOOTHE! <grin from ear to ear on Bill's face>
>
I don't know
>about that. I guess I didn't leave my dad too much
>choice. I finally got courage/nerve, etc. up and was
>not taking NO for an answer...so he had no choice as I
>was not going to let him leave the room without giving
>me a good bare butt paddling.
>
>He DID NOT disappoint me, I'll tell you that! He made
>my butt red and sore as anyone else's butt who ever
>got paddled by a dad! I sure did the "dance" and the
>"rubbing" afterwards like everyone else talks about.
>
>When your Mom spanked you with you the fly swatter
>handle,I'm sure afterwards you did both?
>
Not really. I made a beeline for the first aid kit to squirt some Bactine on to soothe the pain.
>
I wished
>your dad would have come around and at least paddled
>you one time!
>
Yep. Me too.
>
Don't ever hold that against him, he had
>a reason, and I don't believe he was afraid to but, he
>thought other punishments would work better on you,
>and I'm sure they did or you would have really
>criticized your dad BIGTIME.
>
I don't anymore. I know my dad loved me but he wasn't much on showing it, though. When I was your age, I thought of him as distant and uncaring. I only saw my dad cry one time and that was in 2006 when my older brother's remains were found. (He had committed suicide.) I am glad that I did have one last time to tell my dad that I loved him and that was the day he passed. We had him taken to the ER and we had the oxygen turned on full blast. He was coherent but I think he knew the end was coming as he was giving my sister and I last minute instructions. He came home from the ER later that day after we arranged hospice care for him. He passed later that evening in his recliner in the living room. I am glad that he died at home. That was his wish; he didn't want to die in a hospital hooke up to machines. He was 91 which is old for a man. He enjoyed golf and I think he walked the course until he was 75 or 80.
>
>I've had my share of getting yelled at by my dad and
>mom, since I was a little kid, and that sure scared me
>and taught me to be good, but as I got older I
>questioned myself and like every teen questioned if my
>parents were fair to me. I hate getting yelled at, and
>it's been a ffew years since my ears heard a good
>yelling from my dad, who doesn't do that often, but I
>know its part of being a parent and kids hate to admit
>(I know I have sometimes thinking I didn't deseerve it
>and then later realized I did), but there's love in it
>and I hope someday I can become as good a parent to a
>son or daughter, if I'm blessed!
>
I am not a parent myself but I am an uncle five times over and I recently became a great uncle. My niece had a baby last December and she is supposed to come into town this weekend and bring the baby. I held my niece when she was a baby and now she's had a baby. I don't know if you or any of your buddies have ever held a baby in your arms but I can tell you that it is the MOST AWESOME experience.
>
>And I'm not ruling out that I won't give a good
>spanking when it is deserved either, with love.
>
Good for you. A suggestion I would have is that when you show your son the paddle your dad used and explain to him that "Uncle Kyle" made that paddle by hand and up to this time, it has only been used on you. And now you are about to use it on him.
>
>Don't feel you need to apologize to me Bill, for being
>a responsible adult if I need to hear something from
>you and I will admit that I'm not the greatest
>speller, etc., but get by with good enough grades,
>etc. I welcome you imput! That's what this forum or
>all about, and glad you joined up!
>
Don't worry. I can dish it out as well as take it. :D
>
Now that you mention it, I would encourage you to not be too hard on your grandfather. You took the whompin' that I no doubt would have received from my mother's father had he lived long enough to see my parents find that pack of cigarettes hidden in my room! He was both a coal miner and a heavy smoker and I am sure he wouldn't have wanted me to make the same mistake he did. >
>
>You are correct, some of my buddies parents criticized
>why my little butt didn't get spanked or right along
>with their kids when I deserved it and my parents took
>criticizing for it. It was there doing, not mine, to
>not want to blister my little bare butt when it
>deserved to be.
>
Another parallel between us is that my grandmother was openly critical of my dad for not spanking us when we needed it.
>
>And you are right, my dad I feel had been "looking for
>an excuse to spank me earlier then when he finally
>did", but it was not because he was afraid to, it was
>because my mom and him had promised each other to
>raise a child like Dr. Spock suggested.
>
>I wonder if that dude got alot, alot of spankings as a
>kid and wanted to just make sure other kids didn't so
>he suggested parents not spank their kids in fear of
>harming them. The fear that was needed is for kids to
>realize they can't get away with everything with their
>parents if they do wrong and have to own up to their
>wrongs and sometimes get their butt spanked/paddled!
>
I don't know.
>
>As for if my dad would have caved in, if he found
>cigarettes if I was in the second grade? I would like
>to think that he would to a little second grade butt,
>that he would have tanned it really good for the first
>time and I could expect that type of punishment from
>then on. If he had, what do yo uthink he would have or
>should have spanked me with?
>
>Speaking of that, what are your thoughts why your dad
>or your mom didn't spanking you in the second grade,
>finding you with cigarettes, etc.? Why do you think
>they let you off easy, think they thought yelling was
>good enough and would work to teach you not to do it
>again?
>
I think my parents were extremely shellshocked by that and they really didn't know what they were going to do with me; and with my grandpa's death just a few years before that well they were just completely caught off guard; not to mention my extremely young age when that happened.
>
>I know of a kid in school, about late grade school or
>early Middle School. He got caught with a cigarette
>and taken to the principal office. He was given a
>choice, eat the cigarette or get a paddling? I guess
>he got scared, thinking he would get really sick so,
>he elected to take the paddling. He didn't sitdown
>for awhile.
>
Smart move on his part. I did try some Skoal once and it was gross to say the least!
>
>So your a Cardinal fan? What made you become one?
>
I grew up watching the Cardinals and I have lived in St. Louis all my life.
>
I should root for a team, but never got around to
>picking one.
>
How about the Cardinals? They have quite a baseball tradition and I don't think I will be disappointed this year either.
>
Of course the Cards' current series with Philadelphia got overshadowed a bit with the stunt that kid pulled the other night. Picture this. You are at the game with your buddies and you decide to jump on the field. You are then chased down, tasered, handcuffed, and taken away by the police while your father is watching at home on television. I'd be willing to bet he'd be livid seeing all that on television; not to mention your friends' parents and perhaps your principal and your coach. I am guessing you wouldn't be sitting down for a month after everyone gets through with you!
>
I did get into collecting baseball
>cards, and my dad one me some cards that have been put
>up if they really become valuable. Got a few Mark M.
>cards. With him admitting wrong of using steriods, has
>his cards gone down in value? What are some worth? Do
>you collect baseball cards? Got any worth quite a bit?
>
Never got into that much.
>
>That is COOL your a Civil War buff? Me,too! I've
>been told I had two relatives serve in the Civil War.
>I kinda like the Revolutionary War era too, George
>Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Ben Franklin, etc.,and
>what helps me liking the Civil War too, is I was born
>on Feb. 19.
>
I have ancestors who fought in all the wars you mentioned including both sides in the Civil War. I am a descendant of Lord Baltimore so my lineage goes back a long way.
>
>When is your birthday, Bill?
>
April 30, 1962.
>
>Did you and your brother, sister go into this birthday
>spanking tradition I and my buddies found out this
>past year?
>
No, although my gym coach spanked me over his knee with an open hand when I was in 7th grade.
>
Hope I answered all your questions. If anything further comes up ask away. Tell Luke for me that I really didn't mean anything by the "cross-eyed look" comment that I tacked on to the end of my response to him the other day. It took me three hours to wade through all his questions but that is still no excuse.
>
Good luck to you all on Saturday and I look forward to more dialogue with all of you.

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