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Date Posted: 05:14:44 01/21/10 Thu
Author: Joel to Dave
Subject: Re: Joel & Kyle
In reply to: Dave 's message, "Joel & Kyle" on 16:52:53 01/17/10 Sun

Hey Big Brother,
For a guy who has never "bawled out" or "did butt chewing" to a little brothers butt, to make it sore and hard to sit after what you just said, you have reached that point in your life of really being a BIG BROTHER and one who rally cares!
Thanks for the butt chewing, Big Brother. I deserved every word of what you said and more. There was no excuse on my part to start the fight with Kyle, after all he has done for me in my life, even if at times there has been a few times that he's treated me like crap.

However, I have a question and I'm not trying to be a smartass, if I wasn't suppose to fight Kyle after he and Sean admitted they did what they did, what was I suppose to do then, ignore what they did?
When Luke and I heard Sean and Kyle their butts off when we got back to our dorm room, we knew then they had done it and I confronted them and they lied. It took a bit before they realized they were wrong, should own up to what they did and apologize and take any medicine they deserved.
Pressure had built up in me and I just lost it, and went after Kyle. Now should I have said, "that's okay Kyle and Sean. Thanks for dumping Luke and me nude, tied up, gagged, etc. left in the cold?
What should I have done and said then, Big Brother? I was thinking of Luke at the time I went after Kyle, and yes it was STUPID now that I think of it as Kyle could have cleaned my clock, but I wanted to show him I could stand up to him and not be a WHIMP!
All right, I was wrong. I was a WHIMP then!
I realize Kyle is almost like a twin brother to me. I've thanked God all my life for a guy like him. Why then did he treat me and Luke like he did? What kind of brother treats another brother like crap like he did, and to Luke?
I realize Big Brother you are telling me the truth, and I should no thave done what I did, but I lost it like I have other times, and some of those times my butt has made for it with Kyle paddling it, etc.
Should I offer Kyle my butt again to make things right with him, even though he and Sean asked LUke and me to forgive them for what Sean and Kyle did to us?
I threw the first punch, and eventually got a blackeye for it, so I guess that taught me a lesson. To help remind me NOT to try this stunt again I had a photo taken of me with the blackeye and have pinned it up on my bathroom wall to remind me to try to think before I swing next time.
As for showing leadership in the dorm room, after I was elected a capt., etc. I will admit that I SCREWED UP (like other times) and DID NOT set a good example to Luke, even though Luke has told me that I let Kyle off easy. How do I turn this around, explain to LUke it was wrong to throw the first punch and say Kyle and Sean was okay in what they did?
I'll agree I acted like a spoiled, immature BRAT, one who could not believe his BIG BROTHER and friend would pull a stunt and cause possible harm to me and Luke for what purpose-a stupid joke!
You gotta give me credit though, if I wanted to I could have squealed on Kyle and Sean to the college cops when they wanted to know who did the prank to Luke and me. I could have spilled my guts out!
I was thinking that Kyle and Sean could really get into trouble, so I lied for them. Do I get credit for that, or was that a mistake and I should have said, "Oh, I'm sorry officers,I have a "big brother" and friend who likes to play jokes and dump me and Luke, nude, tied up, gagged, blindfolded and left for possible harm, but please don't punish Kyle and Sean, they didn't mean it!"
I got it off my chest, but I forgive Kyle and Sean again. I'm just thankful our parents, coach and others didn't find out.
I would owned up to what happened, and not cause the rest of the team to have to pack up and go home. I would have told my dad what a jerk of a son he had and go ahead and paddle his butt until it was tenderized, if I had to to make rights after I swung and fought with Kyle.
So should I now? Nobody knows except Kyle, Sean, LUke and me and the campus police about a prank that was played, but don't know who did it.
I don't know, maybe I'm NOT such a good Little Brother after all to ya Dave, and I wouldn't blame you one bit how ashamed you are of me to dump me. I don't want to hurt you and Rick, even if you said enough is enough from the butt chewing you gave me!
I see you said that your damn proud of me yet. For what? I did a stupid, jerk thing to a great guy like Kyle, a brother to me all my life and then I act like an ass to him without thinking. That's happened to me alot this past year, don't know what causes me to do it.
You are experienced giving "Big Brother Talks" Big Brother, you just have to get it through a l7 yr. old mind to realize not to be a jerk and start a fight, but the pressure built up so much that Kyle and Sean wouldn't admit to what they did that I lost it. Probably won't be my last time to lose it before I'm done...
So tell me what to do, if I need to do something else, besides the apology I did already and asked Kyle to forgive me?
So you think too, Luke should paddle Kyle and me, two little bratty kids' butts?
I've thought one thing to, if I was a real brother to you and Rick I bet I would be the one your dad would really be giving the ass whippin's to more while you guys was growing up, and you both would really have entertainmet to watch me get it, and make fun of afterwards with a sore, red butt to look at and thank God it wasn't your butt that got it!

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  • Re: Joel & Kyle -- Kyle to Dave, 06:16:08 01/23/10 Sat
  • Re: Joel & Kyle -- Dave, 16:49:00 01/24/10 Sun
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