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Subject: I wrote above having not seen this yet..


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Date Posted: 17:10:59 01/29/14 Wed
In reply to: 's message, "heavy heart" on 16:55:38 01/29/14 Wed

>I have read so many of the posts here recently. It
>just makes my heart heavy and so so so sad. I have
>always heard and seen the girls competing in this
>system sharing about the life long friends they have
>made and the wonderful mentors and relationships they
>form along the way.
>If someone reads this board I can only think that must
>be a lie. Is this really Kentucky? Are these really
>the girls competing in this system and who want to
>represent KY as a role model? Are these the thoughts
>that truly rule your hearts? These comments are so
>full of venom and hate. True hate seems to be so
>obvious.
>I realize this is a competition and not every post is
>from a competitor but many are and many from relatives
>and directors. Most comments are from someone closely
>connected to the system through a competitor. What an
>awful thing to see. We always hear the question what
>is character? It's who you are when no one else is
>looking. Is this who you are? Truly? What is your
>true motive here?
>We have stooped so low as to start picking on peoples
>choices of mentors and coaches?
>Honestly, people, please please be better for
>Kentucky. It's just so gross and sad that our Miss KY
>can't appear in public without being put down on how
>her hair looks. Our Teen can't post with out a mean
>comment here. Discussing the pageants and how people
>did and predicting is all part of the fun and spirit
>of competition but the level of nastiness that
>prevails here is just about as bad as it can get.
>Will you be so accepting of the nastiness when it is
>you or your family who is being ripped apart? If you
>are a contestant I implore you to be better. Encourage
>you to rise above and refuse to take part in the low
>down hate quagmire of this board.
>Make this board a place to come get updates and true
>discussion about this system that we all so proudly
>advertise as being a great place to meet friends. Be
>that friend. I realize everyone will not be your best
>friend but do they all have to be your enemy? Why are
>we not really the example we pretend to be when we are
>answering that on stage question. Are we/you truly a
>person of character or are you that nasty girl behind
>a keyboard saying your ugliest thoughts at the girl
>you envy or feel may best you at the next pageant.

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