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Subject: PJ's Three P's

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PJ

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Date Posted: 03:06:26 07/24/12 Tue

I have posted this on the other voy site before and I also posted it on the current board I am a member of.

I like it and I think it helps understand "why" we get spankings.

OK, a spanking HURTS! It HURTS a lot! I know, news flash, right? But, I started thinking, why do our parents cause us pain? Why does a spanking need to hurt?

My Dad is a minister and so I am no stranger to sermons. Every good sermon has three alliterative points. So, I stole that model. Here is what I came up with:

Pain is Penalty. We are being punished. The pain is our way of "paying for" what we did (or didn't do.) Simply, the pain is the direct consequence of our action.

Pain is Promise. It is a deterrent. The hope is that the spanking will hurt to the point that we want to avoid it in the future. We should connect the pain to the act and thereby strive to avoid the act in the future and thereby avoid pain. We are promised that pain will follow if the misdeed is repeated.

Pain is Peace. There is something about a spanking that cleans the slate. I find no other punishment is as effective at giving you a feeling of forgiveness. The guilt is no longer hanging over your head, the matter is dealt with and closed. I think a lot of the cleansing feeling comes from the crying. After I get a really hard spanking and I cry a lot, I find I feel the most forgiven.

So, in my opinion, that is why a spanking has to hurt.

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[> Subject: Re: PJ's Three P's

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Bob E.
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Date Posted: 09:43:33 07/24/12 Tue

PJ, your future as a minister is assured with this kind of message for your congregation. I know, as a parent, that after I have spanked one of my children, the matter is completely over after the last spank is given. My child is then forgiven, and his tears are wiped away, hugs and kisses are given, and he is assured that he is very loved. After he has recovered, he can rejoin the family having paid the penalty for his "crime." When all is forgiven after the spanking, he is once again a complete member of the family.

What a great way to explain the value of a spanking, PJ! Thank you!

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[> Subject: Re: PJ's Three P's

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Ryan
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Date Posted: 23:07:44 07/29/12 Sun

Thanks for explaining! What you said makes sense and I'm going to try to remember it like that. I get spanked a lot and Dad says I must have a short memory and he doesn't like spanking me but thinks I need it. I always thought of it just as punishment but not promise or peace and I never would have thought like that. Maybe if I do I can avoid the paddle better. I hate it but then I forget.

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[> Subject: Re: PJ's Three P's
Author: Michael [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 15:49:34 08/01/12 Wed Never thought about it like that before. Thanks for posting that. It makes sense I guess. I hate getting one but I do get that peace feeling you said about after its over and not hurting so much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]