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Subject: Re: Me again

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CaringThroughAction

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Date Posted: 09:57:59 11/10/25 Mon
In reply to: Elsie 's message, "Me again" on 11:03:58 11/09/25 Sun

Elsie, that is impressive and you've certainly done a lot more due diligence and research than most others. Your conclusion and willingness to show all of this to your mom shows you clearly believe it will help you, as much as you obviously would not be looking forward to it.

I had an opportunity to mentor and discipline a 19 y/o (at the time) college student. I sort of fell into it. But she also appreciated the effects it had on her, in a round about way. This was a consensual disciplinary situation. The difference between you and she is that she was spanked until leaving home for school. But she clearly had the cognitive ability to objectively understand how well it worked.

If it does not work out with your Mom, you can consider a mentor/disciplinarian. Feel free to reach out if you want some guidance on that. Be careful, of course.

The other thing you can do as an option is use that same ability you did to research spanking, to find ways to learn self-discipline. I am also willing to help you with ideas, if you wish.

Either way, keep us posted and good luck with Mom.

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Author: Marla to Caring [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 10:03:41 11/10/25 Mon Are you a woman or man? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:31:35 11/10/25 Mon I am a man, Marla. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: Elsie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 02:04:05 11/11/25 Tue Thank you for your encouragement and guidance. I really suck at self discipline. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:13:26 12/31/25 Wed Sorry for the late reply, but you are welcome. We have a new year upon us. I hope things get better for you in 2026! I think you'll do fine. Self-discipline does not happen overnight. It's a process. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]