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Subject: Me again Author: Elsie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:03:58 11/09/25 Sun Hi everybody.I find this site fascinating and it makes me wish even more I knew what it's like. I'm 19 years old living at home going to college. I've always wanted to know what it's like to get a spanking. When I was younger I even asked my mom to spank me instead of grounding me. It didn't work. In the last few days since I first wrote on here I have done a lot of research and have filled a notebook with information about spanking, testimonials by people who got spanked, instructions on different ways to spank and even links to videos, both Google and porn. I may regret this, but I am going to give it to my mom with a letter asking her to start spanking me before I go to school and work tomorrow. I know this is probably really stupid and whatever the outcome is positive or negative I'm going to regret it. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: To Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:14:01 11/09/25 Sun I wish you all the best with this! May I ask some questions? 1. how old when you asked her before? Is she against spanking? Are you and her close? Do you have any cousins that get spanked? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:58:05 11/11/25 Tue I asked when I was 9 or 10 and when I was about 13, but they weren't real talks. I don't know if she's necessarily Anti-spanking, but it's just not how she does things. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:34:37 11/09/25 Sun Having your mom do it is much safer than finding a stranger to give you a spanking. I can tell from what you are saying that you have a powerful urge to experience a real spanking. But your mom may not understand your desire or take it seriously. Whatever happens, I hope you will be very careful in pursuing this in the future. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:57:59 11/10/25 Mon Elsie, that is impressive and you've certainly done a lot more due diligence and research than most others. Your conclusion and willingness to show all of this to your mom shows you clearly believe it will help you, as much as you obviously would not be looking forward to it. I had an opportunity to mentor and discipline a 19 y/o (at the time) college student. I sort of fell into it. But she also appreciated the effects it had on her, in a round about way. This was a consensual disciplinary situation. The difference between you and she is that she was spanked until leaving home for school. But she clearly had the cognitive ability to objectively understand how well it worked. If it does not work out with your Mom, you can consider a mentor/disciplinarian. Feel free to reach out if you want some guidance on that. Be careful, of course. The other thing you can do as an option is use that same ability you did to research spanking, to find ways to learn self-discipline. I am also willing to help you with ideas, if you wish. Either way, keep us posted and good luck with Mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Marla to Caring [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:03:41 11/10/25 Mon Are you a woman or man? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:31:35 11/10/25 Mon I am a man, Marla. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:04:05 11/11/25 Tue Thank you for your encouragement and guidance. I really suck at self discipline. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:26 12/31/25 Wed Sorry for the late reply, but you are welcome. We have a new year upon us. I hope things get better for you in 2026! I think you'll do fine. Self-discipline does not happen overnight. It's a process. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:14:46 11/10/25 Mon Then tell us how exactly do you spank an adult girl. In details, please ... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:05:29 11/11/25 Tue I chickened out this time. Maybe another time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:58:24 11/11/25 Tue You have to do it today and you know it. What are you shying away from? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: JenniAnn to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:42:30 11/11/25 Tue Honestly, I think you should try to find a partner or friend that you trust with all your heart rather than asking your mom to spank you. First of all, she will probably say no and you should think about how ashamed you will feel even for asking. I understand your desire for being spanked like a little girl but if your parents hasn't spanked you until now, they are not going to start now. Hope sincerely you will find someone who can give you what you need, a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking over someones knees until you are bawling and kicking with your legs like a little girl. And you will feel like one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Marla to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:51:49 11/11/25 Tue This is hypothetical but if you were ever approached by a girl like Elsie to keep her on track and give such spankings as needed, would you do it? It must be daunting to attempt to find someone that knows what is needed and can do it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:21:17 11/11/25 Tue Elise, talk to your Mom when you are ready to. It's something that nobody can make you do or push you to do. If you were in the Sacramento area I'd work with you, and have experience. Good luck with it. Your mom may surprise you and be willing to address your need. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:12:39 11/11/25 Tue Tell your mom! Tell your mom! TELL YOUR MOM! I can't stress this enough. Tell your mom. Just like to I grew up longing for the closeness with my mommy I thought other girls had of being held tightly over my mommy's knees having my bare bottom spanked. Being held accountable for my actions and poor decisions. Then being cradled and forgiven. I was a spoiled brat and I knew it even as a little girl. I was a very good girl and didn't get into the kind of mischief my classmates got into, but I had a devious streak and was allowed to get away with it. I was given everything I wanted or demanded and was never firmly told no and never was punished for tantrums, even as a teen or adult. It wasn't until I moved in with my now wife that I was held accountable and got my butt blistered for such misbehaviors about 10 years ago, and still do. I was over 30 when my mom finally turned me over her knees and blistered my bottom. A little late, but... Most of the reason my mother never spanked me (I think) is because, like me she has a fetish. Your mom may too which might explain why she has dismissed the idea of spankings you. My mother was crazy and we did not have a close relationship. I get the feeling that you and your mom have a close relationship and you are able to talk openly with each other. I urge you to follow through with your plan. If your mom reads the info and thinks you're weird and flat out says no, so what. She's your mother and she will understand even if she doesn't go along with it. Unless she's one of those rigid, closed minded, misguided, self absorbed brainwashed people who would disown you if you came out as gay, she will understand and always be your loving mother. TELL YOUR MOM! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:28:59 11/12/25 Wed Today is the day. My mom is off today. I'm going to leave the notebook on the kitchen table. I'm going to go to class and the library then go to work. There is no turning back now. I'm so nervous. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:37 11/12/25 Wed 👍and when do you come back? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:55:42 11/12/25 Wed Please keep us posted, Elise. It will certainly be interesting if you can get a parent to do that which they have not done so yet. If she does not honor your request, what do you plan to do? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:27:55 11/12/25 Wed I think she wants her MOM to do it. Something creepy about you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:53:15 11/12/25 Wed As far as something being creepy about me... Personally, I don't know you and your opinion means nothing to me. You sure as hell don't know me either. Anyone can think anything about anyone posting on a freaking spanking forum, and God knows there are many fakes and role-players. I'm real, have had a couple of consensual mentoring experiences that used CP and have mentored many others over the years without it. I post suggestions and people are free to take them or leave them. Simple as that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:36:07 11/13/25 Thu My shift ended at 7. My mom was watching TV. We said hi etc. She said there was a plate in the fridge. I ate and went to my room. I know she must have read at least some of it but neither of us really said anything. She seemed a lot less talkative than usual. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:52:11 11/13/25 Thu What would you like her to spank you with on your bare bottom? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:53:23 11/13/25 Thu She was probably surprised and might have been formulating a response. I can only imagine your level of suspense at that point, yesterday evening. I hope it all works out for you in the way you wish it to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:11:59 11/13/25 Thu That must be a very awkward feeling. I can only imagine it. How can you know what she read, if anything? Would she just ignore the whole thing and say nothing? Hopefully, your mom will address it directly, even if only to assure you she can't accommodate your wishes. If not, you might have to ask her if she read it, or be left with things hanging uncomfortably in the air. Good luck. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:09:40 11/14/25 Fri At some point do you plan to just straight-up ask her what her thoughts were on what you left her to read? I get the anxiety of not knowing where you stand on this. Hopefully, this weekend things will get resolved one way or another. Good luck Elise. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:57:01 11/14/25 Fri Worked till 11 last night so I was able to avoid her completely. I wont be able to do this forever. I wish I had never done this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:06:50 11/14/25 Fri Perhaps you could place the chosen implement on the table for her... instead of talking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: James to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:10:04 11/14/25 Fri Well, cat is out of the bag now, so can't go back...but you don't need to. Glad to talk about it if you want to send an email, so you can get to a better place. Part of the issue is that your mother probably has been lacking the confidence to do it herself, which is not unusual. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:00:25 11/14/25 Fri This has renewed my interest and faith in this group. I wish you the best. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:30:44 11/14/25 Fri My mom has always been strict. I don't mean that I got punished a lot, but she had a lot of rules and never was very permissive like a lot of people's parents I knew. The couple times I said I asked my mom to spank me was when I got grounded and said something like "Why don't you just spank me". I think she might have considered it then, maybe, I don't know, but it probably sounded more like trying to get out of grounding, but in reality I really was asking her to spank me. That was all in the notebook I gave my mom. I got home from work tonight. My mom was watching TV and said dinner was in the fridge. While I was eating my mom sat across from me and she asked the usual dumb questions, but I was trying to avoid her. I said I was going to eat in my room. She said we have a rule about eating in my room. She said she was in my room today and I hadn't done the chores I was supposed to do, my laundry, OMG was she looking in my hamper? and the vacuuming. She said I also didn't do the dishes I was supposed to do and to look in the sink and see what she found in my room. A whole bunch of dishes that aren't supposed to be in there. She told me the laundry and vacuuming can wait till I get back from work tomorrow, but I had to do the dishes tonight. When she stood up I noticed a paddle on the wall that had never been there before. I'd like to tell myself that it's just a cutting board, but I don't believe that. I feel really sick. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:26:35 11/14/25 Fri you're on the good way and you may ask her about the paddle [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:52:26 11/15/25 Sat I've seen these types of paddles in a lot of people's houses hanging on the wall or on a shelf or something and of course I think spanking but rationalizing they're just decorative. But for my mom to suddenly have one hanging in the kitchen is a little sus. I didn't sleep hardly at all last night and I've got to go to work. This is similarhttps://pleasurefactorys.myshopify.com/products/14x-3-5-walnut-spanking-paddle?srsltid=AfmBOoo5cSV2UZ9dhnsCbYB9-vCGT3YzBhmrb-hCDHir8s56nEyj8nHp [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:22:45 11/15/25 Sat Just ask her... where she got it, what it's for, and when..? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:31:47 11/15/25 Sat I wonder if your Mom is kind of toying with you. That wall hanging has a purpose, a message behind it, because it is a paddle for spanking and not a cutting board to serve cheese and crackers. Did you come back down from your room and actually clean up the dishes? Perhaps you are also subconsciously asking her for accountability, in a way. It sounds like you do need some kind of consequence with this list she came up with. Not to please her so much, but rather to help you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:07:16 11/15/25 Sat Either your mom is just trying to scare you or she intends on using that paddle on your butt when you screw up. I'm guessing the latter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:31:27 11/15/25 Sat It seems the paddle must be for spanking. Too much of a coincidence to not be. This isn't the first time you've asked your mom for this and, giving in, maybe she is letting you decide to make the next move, or she would have used it already. I wonder if she really believes a spanking would improve your behavior, or if she has just decided to give you what you want. Either way, it would be interesting to know what you think of the experience afterwards. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:36:16 11/15/25 Sat It sounds to me like your mom is taking charge of a daughter who has been lazy and sloppy around the house and perhaps disrespectful "the usual dumb questions." A rare opportunity for your mom. I'm just gonna say I think it would do good and I hope you get exactly what you asked for. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:47:32 11/16/25 Sun I can't sleep so I'll just tell you what happened. This all happened so fast. I guess it really hasn't because it's been 19 years and I've been turning all this over in my mind since I was in grade school. Yes, Caring Through Action of course I did the dishes. At work my brain was going crazy. I wanted to go home, but I didn't want to go home. When I got home I got the usual small talk and was told to do my chores. My mom had separated my laundry, that was embarrassing, and I vacuumed and cleaned my room and did some other things. My mom helped me put away my laundry and I was thing 'Mom please get away from my laundry, this is embarrassing.' Then she told me to go in the kitchen. I don't know which was worse thinking she was going to spank me or we were going to talk. I think a spanking would have been better than talking. I started at that paddle waiting for her. It didn't look so appealing now. She came in with the notebook and sat down. I don't know if I felt shame or what I was feeling. I'll try to rewrite what she said but it's all pretty much a jumble. "This is interesting reading. You put a lot of thought and research into this. I've always wondered if maybe not holding you more accountable and not being more firm with consequences was maybe doing you a disservice. It's very hard being a parent and we don't always make the right decisions. We chose not to spank. I knew your father was against it. I wasn't so sure. After we divorced I just let be what was. There were thousands of times I thought you deserved a good spanking and in many ways I regretted not doing it. Groundings didn't stick and they were really punishment for both of us. I know a lot more about you than you think. A girl can't keep secrets from her mother because she already knows. I've read everything in this notebook. Even looked at the pictures and watched the videos you linked. This is A+ work. I just hope your studies haven't suffered in the process." I wanted to jump in and say things but I couldn't and I kept staring at that paddle and not wanting to know about it. I felt sick. My brain was going everywhere. The main thing is I just kept thinking this wasn't happening. I'd actually been working on that notebook for over a year so my studies didn't actually suffer. "Is this really what you want? Are you sure? There will be no turning back. Are you sure this is what you want? Alright then. Here is a list of rules. Study them carefully. They're the same rules you've always had, but now they will be adhered to and there will be consequences." I don't know what I felt or am feeling. This is not really what I want. I thought I did, but now I don't know. Now I can't get away with anything. I fear that getting a real spanking is way different than in my brain or self spanking. I had plans to hang out with my friend. I just had to get out of the house. I knew I wouldn't be good company but I had to get out of the house. My mom told me to be back by 10:00 and I said "10:00!" "You didn't do your chores when you were told, so be back here at 10:00." I was about to get into an argument like usual, but I stopped dead. 10:00 was coming. I was having fun and I couldn't tell her I had to be home. 10:00 passed. I just told her I wasn't feeling well and went home. My mom asked if I had a good time and what I did then she said I was grounded. I was like "GROUNDED?!" I started to protest as usual but I could see I wasn't going to win and I better quit. So I'm grounded till Wednesday. Work and school and that's it. I guess I better try to get some sleep. Even though I've been thinking about this for literally years it just seems to have happened so fast. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Janika [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:44:13 11/16/25 Sun I don't mean to scare you or anything, but the paddle HURTS. You're lucky you just got grounded. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Janika [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:58:31 11/16/25 Sun I know you're having second thoughts about this and maybe even regretting it, but I think you made the right decision for you. It sounds like you've got a great relationship with your mom, she sounds very understanding. From what I've read you know in your heart, besides a fetish, you understand that you need accountability in your life. Spankings may be embarrassing and painful, but hopefully you'll learn from them. Like your mom said, grounding is easy to get out of and both she and you get punished. Nothing is really resolved with grounding, at least for me and the bitter feelings just linger. At least with spanking there's no way to get out of it, you pay the price and it's done and hopefully you learn. I'm 22, still at home and I can still get a spanking. My last one was mid September and I'm trying to avoid another one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Marla to Janika [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:49:06 11/16/25 Sun I'm sure this question will soon be pertinent to Elsie but let me ask you when you get spanked 1. do you cry; and if yes 2. is it because it hurts so much or because you have disappointed your mom or both? If both, which weighs heavier? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:53:20 11/16/25 Sun Grounded? There must be more to come. What are you grounded for? Getting home late? Not doing your chores? Both? How long has it been since you were last grounded? I thought this was about not getting grounded and getting spanked instead. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Janika [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:03:10 11/16/25 Sun Sorry you're disappointed Marla, but it sounds like mom is taking the first step towards taking charge and sticking with it. I'm sure it's a gradual process and not something you just jump into. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:07:25 11/16/25 Sun Not "disappointed" Jankia just I guess surprised but I had that same thought -- mom is taking the first step. It sounds like her mom is serious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Janika [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:09:28 11/16/25 Sun Sounds like mom has been thinking about this for a loooooooong time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:46:00 11/16/25 Sun Well, I would feel sorry for you, but you are now in the middle of what you've been dreaming of for years. You must have known this would be a very nervous time, that you would have to start reevaluating your behavior and decisions in light of the punishment you can receive. If you had not had the courage to ask your mom for this, then you would always be dreaming and wondering what you have missed. Misbehave now, and you will never have to just imagine what might have happened. I hope you will try to behave yourself. But if you legitimately fail, you will have the memories of being raised by a parent who paddles. I think you may cherish those memories if they are of a meaningful experience where you messed up and did not like the spanking you got. You won't ever forget what real punishment was like. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:43:05 11/16/25 Sun You have to put the paddle on the table now, I think. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:25:03 11/17/25 Mon One full day of grounding, two more to go. By this time the old mom would have said "well, you can do this but not that." but not the new mom. Yesterday I asked if I could just go to the store and got a flat no. I just wanted to get something at the store, that's it. I'm not so sure I like this accountability business. Spanking doesn't seem like such a good option anymore. I still want to know what it's like to be spanked but the reality of it and all the things I've read about it really scare me. I wouldn't be surprised if my mom put a tracker on my phone to make sure I go directly to school and directly home. I don't work today so I don't even get that. When I'm not trying to avoid my mom I noticed I'm being all friendly and helpful. Not like I'm not normally, but you know, just trying to stay on her good side. The last thing I want to do is make her mad. It feels fake. I just don't want to get more grounded or spanked. In my previous thoughts my mom would pull down my underwear. But OMG, she might really do that. Well I wont bother you any more. Gotta get to school. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:12:13 11/17/25 Mon So, take the paddle in your hand and put it on the table... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:15:41 11/17/25 Mon it's so easy, really! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:11:57 11/17/25 Mon If I remember correctly, the idea was that spanking would be preferable to grounding. So now maybe when faced with the real possibility of the paddle, grounding doesn't seem quite as bad? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:11:43 11/20/25 Thu Officially ungrounded and marked safe from a spanked butt! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:44:21 11/20/25 Thu Tell us more, please. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:30:21 11/21/25 Fri There's really nothing to tell. I served my grounding and obeyed the rules. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:29:44 11/17/25 Mon Elsie, the "accountability business" is something we all need to learn, as it's a necessary part of a functional life. But I get your feelings. I agree with Marla in that your Mom is probably starting to change her approach. I think she led into that when she mentioned "sometimes parents make mistakes" (paraphrasing). No doubt your head was/is spinning with anticipation. I like how she acknowledged your research effort. I think you would make a great scientist! Just be you... don't worry about being real or fake, all that. Just do life and try your best to meet her expectations, which have not appeared unreasonable. As far as getting spanked, if it's to happen, it will. Scary? Can be I guess. Hurt? it's supposed to. But you'll get through it. Just a thought... I wonder if she will withhold spanking simply because she knows you want that as a consequence, or are fascinated with it. She may feel because of that, it might be more of a curiosity and less of a consequence. But then she also mentioned how grounding resulted in you both being punished. Hard to say. As they say... "Careful what you wish for"... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:01:56 11/18/25 Tue It was a really nice day yesterday, just a bit chilly and the Sun was out most of the day. I had to enjoy it through the window and with my mom calling me nearly every hour I would be dead if she heard traffic or dogs barking or whatever. Just one more day and fortunately I have a class and work, so at least I'll get out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:01:20 11/18/25 Tue you could act... Don't be afraid of your mother and the paddle [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:45:08 11/18/25 Tue Are you suggesting that she purposely break rules just to know what it's like to get spanked? She has every right to be concerned about that paddle. And it would be downright disrespectful to her mother to purposely disobey her. You should be ashamed of yourself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm dead Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:32:39 11/18/25 Tue That's exactly what she needs... isn't it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:30:04 11/15/25 Sat In your OP, you stated you "wanted to know what it's like to get a spanking." Have you thought about checking your area to see if there are ever any spanking parties near you? I make that suggestion because it is the safest way to meet individuals, male or female, who will spank you. Just because it is a spanking party, that does not mean you cannot say no to being spanked by anyone and you can set limits that anyone must respect. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Alfred22 for Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:47:14 11/26/25 Wed It is clear that consequences for naughty and unnecessary conduct work for you. That is encouraging. Now you will have to decide if you can make spanking work. There are many benefits to it, especially over groundings. Some are obvious but others are more subtle. Another grounding or two and you will start considering the benefits of spanking. Just as Pat has hinted. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:42:48 11/21/25 Fri My first day of freedom being ungrounded. Went to school, went to work, got off at 7. Rushed home because my friend was picking me up. My mom said to be back by 9:00. I said "9:00!!" and my mom said not a minute later. My friend was in the car and I really didn't want her to have to wait while I'm getting spanked so I just said alright. 8:30 I was like "I gotta get home. I gotta get home." She wanted to know why and I just made stuff up. This is going to start happening a lot. What do I tell her? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:12:17 11/21/25 Fri I would not tell my friends unless I wanted them to know. I would just say I'm tired or need my beauty sleep, or have to get up early next morning so I'm going home now. If you make it sound like it is your decision, no one is going to suspect that someone your age could get a spanking if they are home late. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:39:48 11/22/25 Sat But every time? She's going to get suspicious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:53:14 11/23/25 Sun You could make it your own rule that you need to be home at the specified time. Like maybe you've come to the conclusion that you need to live a more disciplined, healthy lifestyle, and so no more staying out late at night. If you stick to your new "self-discipline," maybe your mother will even loosen up the curfew when she sees how responsible you are. I don't know if that fits you right, and that your friends will believe you. But would it be even harder to believe that your mom spanks you? You could also be a little more honest with them and tell them your mom is making the rules, but you don't have to mention anything about spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:22:18 11/21/25 Fri and you don't want to try the spanking an more? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:05:21 11/21/25 Fri Plot twist. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Curious [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:11:58 11/21/25 Fri So Elsie, have you actually been spanked, or is it still just a threat? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:41:26 11/22/25 Sat No I haven't been spanked but I got grounded and she was serious about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:10:29 11/22/25 Sat It's kind of ironic but you have basically put a tremendous amount of effort into -- getting grounded. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:32:25 11/24/25 Mon Has the dog caught the car? It could be wanting to live with the threat of a spanking, but not actually get one. Grounding would be a relief, better than a more painful and embarrassing punishment. Still, I have a feeling that a spanking may be coming. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: JenniAnn to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:58:54 11/23/25 Sun I understand you want to get a good spanking from your mom while at the same time, you don't. When you think about your desire to get spanked, can you tell us how you would like to be spanked if it happens? Over the knees? With hand, hairbrush? What are your anticipated reactions? Just curious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:11:55 11/27/25 Thu In my thoughts going back to when I was a kid I always thought about my mom (or a teacher, boss, whater) spanking my bare bottom over her knees like on a chair with her hand and maybe a hairbrush or spoon or paddle or something. When I knew it wouldn't happen it felt really cathartic. I wanted it so bad to be real. Now that it could actually happen it doesn't seem as great as I thought it would. Now I want to just keep spanking myself and keep it in my fantasies but my mom seems to really like the idea of being more of a disciplinarian and keeping me accountable and it kinda sucks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:20 11/27/25 Thu I guess it's kind of like watching other kids jumping off the playground equipment or doing stupid dangerous stunts on their skateboard so you decide to do it too, but when you get there and everybody is pushing you to do it and you feel like you can't get out of it it doesn't seem like such a great idea. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:46:18 11/27/25 Thu You have to try it and experience it. You will survive it, and you will definitely feel better after the experience. Talk to your mom about it again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: BBB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:43:51 11/27/25 Thu Happy Spanksgiving. Maybe you can explain to your mom that you have second thoughts about the spanking. It was your idea, so I'm not sure why she now, all of a sudden after years, thinks spanking you is a necessity. I think what's best for you may not be what the cheerleaders are clamoring for. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Alfred22 for Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:25:18 11/27/25 Thu Be your natural self. Trust your intuitions. It is likely that your mother is NOT going to offer you a loving and gentle FIRST SPANKING. Indeed, given how strict her grounding was, she is likely to "follow suit" and make any spanking she gives as difficult as your grounding. This means several things: 1. No getting out of it. Once earned, no turning back. The die is cast. Or as they say at the casino, the bets are made. Or as we might modify that saying: No switching from red to black! 2. The new especially made for spanking paddle will be unhooked from the wall where its influence is only in your imagination and it will then be briskly applied to your very bare bottom. Suddenly its influence is no longer imaginary. You will find that special shape now influences your thinking, just a glance. Once just one firm lick has landed, you will never look at spanking paddles or even cheese & cracker serving cutting boards the same way. 3. To avoid even these first small steps, you should try to be on your absolutely best behavior. At least make a sincere attempt. Don't even contemplate deliberately being naughty. You should be able to do this for a while. If and it is a big if, you can keep up near perfect conduct, I believe that your mother will NOT spank you, especially since she will sense how much the reality of getting spanked scares you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:44 12/02/25 Tue Hi Elsie, Having been down part of the same road as you describe I would like to offer my advice sometime. But first my question would be now that you have your Mom on board, what is your apprehension? Are you afraid of a real spanking, or do you think the new rules will be more restrictive than you have become used to? Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:12:45 12/03/25 Wed Both. Since this started I've been grounded three times. It's only been like three weeks. And she means it. I've got a whole bunch of rules I have to follow and she's sticking to them. Now I've got finals coming up so I got thesis, essays and studying to do so I'm basically a prisonor. For Thanksgiving she told me what I had to wear and I said no and I got grounded again. And several times she actually said the word spanking. Thinking about it and actually hearing the word are two different things. I still want to know what it's like to get a spanking but I look at that paddle and I touch it and it's real. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsi [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:17:37 12/03/25 Wed One other thing, I know she changed my diapers and gave me baths and washed my clothes and all that, but the thought of my mom pulling down my underwear and seeing me like that gives me shivers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:22:18 12/03/25 Wed Have you just plain asked her why she has not spanked you yet? I get your curiosity. But in all honesty, if I were a grounding parent in this case, I'd have to ask myself "is this really working?". Yet, the paddle remains on the wall for all to see. Interesting on the Thanksgiving clothes she specified for you. Almost something you'd say to a 10 year-old. I could see suggesting an outfit at your age. I wonder if your mom has some control issues. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:04:49 12/03/25 Wed Flirting with the possibility of a bare bottom spanking with a hard paddle can really spice up your life, and you won't know what it is like til it happens. Then having to put up with being treated like a child. It is quite a dilemma. How hard do you dare push it? You must ask yourself again and again: is getting what I want really what I want? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: ALGUY [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:38:04 12/03/25 Wed Why did your mother try to dress you for Thanksgiving? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:26:45 12/04/25 Thu Hi Elsie, As I previously mentioned, I have wanted to get spanked since I was about four. I had been spanked with a hairbrush once before. Ever since then I have wanted to get it again it and I can tell you that the desire never goes away. I somehow got up the nerve to ask Mom to spank me again but she didn't want to do it because she said it really hurts and she didn't have a good reason at that time. I already knew that! But I was fascinated by the thought! Later in my elementary school it was really easy to get paddled and about fourth grade I saw some good ones and decided I wanted to get it like they got it. The problem was that it was usually done in front of the class and I certainly didn't want that so I did my best to avoid getting paddled even though I wanted it. A real dilemma! One other problem was that us girls rarely got spanked in school so it was less likely that I would get what I really wanted. So "bottom" line is that I would say that you now have an ideal situation setup to get a real spanking and if you back out now I think you may later wish you had just gone with the flow and done it. You and I and so many of us here are stuck with the desire for life (not a bad thing) and most have found ways to have that desired filled. It took me years to find an S/O who has a problem with my sometimes smart mouth and I find myself bent over and getting my (usually) bare bottom sore which lasts a few days. I certainly lucked out in finding her. So again, I recommend that you just go with the flow and let it happen. If your Mom already acquired a paddle then she probably really knows how to do it. Best wishes to you from someone who has been there and finally got what she wanted most of her life. Your situation is a very safe one. Also from your description it sounds like you probably should have been spanked long ago for your behavior but I may have more comments about that later. What were the circumstances that caused her to tell you what to wear for Thanksgiving? Good luck with however you decide to handle it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:20:34 12/07/25 Sun I came home yesterday after hanging out with my friend. My mom didn't even say hello, she just said "I thought you were grounded" I guess because I was hanging out with my friend and feeling grown up I got attitude and I told her no my grounding was over. For some stupid reason even though I knew my mom was pissed I suddenly got an attitude with her. "No. You grounded me on Wednesday, that's Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. Today is Saturday so my grounding is over." "That was Wednesday night and you knew that." "No. Wednesday counts." "You're already getting a spanking, young lady so you better drop the attitude." Hearing her say that word was unbelievable. I was suddenly trying to get out of it. I started to try to change her mind. "Oh come on mom, we already made plans. I couldn't tell her I couldn't go." "When did you make those plans?" "Well, yesterday." "On the phone?" "Yeah." "You were grounded from your phone, so how did that happen?" Ooops. I realized I just told on myself. I also hadn't cleaned my room like I was supposed and my mom found ramen cups and food boxes and silverware in there. Before a month ago my mom would just yell at me and maybe even ground me, but it probably wouldn't stick but this time I knew I wasn't getting out of it and I knew she was serious. She brought a kitchen chair into the living room then came back in holding the paddle. It was like watching a horror movie. I was scared but it didn't seem real. I saw that paddle in her hand and I about pooped my pants. I was kind of wishing I had. I slowly inched my was over to my mom. It felt like I was walking in a swimming pool. It seemed like it took ten minutes to walk two feet. My mom started pulling my pajama pants down "Oh no, please mom". I tried to grab my panties when my mom started pulling them down. "Sweetie, I know everything about you, so there's no need for modesty." I just couldn't believe this was happening. My mom started listing the reasons I was getting this spanking and brought up a whole bunch of stuff from the past that I should have been spanked for and again talked about me not getting spanked and my mom thought she she should have and how this is what I wanted and she was going to give me a spanking and I wouldn't like it and it would be a spanking I would regret. None of it was making any sense, it was like she was speaking in a foreign language.None of this seemed real, even when I was staring at the carpet feeling my mom's hand on my butt. The first spank stung a lot worse that when I spanked myself, even with the bathbrush, but it wasn't too bad. I had to wait a long time for the next one. After four it was like it stung but it wasn't too bad. But after a whole bunch like that my butt really started to burn. It might have been like a hundred drawn out spanks, I don't know it could have been twenty, but my butt was really hurting and I didn't like it, but my mom stopped and rubbed my butt and talked, I don't know what she was saying. I thought it was over and I thought well, I don't want to go through that again, but it really wasn't that bad. I was waiting for my mom to let me up, but then I felt my mom really hard put her arm around my waist and then she REALLY gave me a spanking. I started crying and yelling and kicking but there was nothing I could do to stop it or avoid the spanks. When she finally stopped my butt was on fire and of all the crazy thoughts going around my head I remember hoping that my friend left and didn't hang around on the porch. When I could finally settle down, my mom's hand rubbing my bottom felt really good and even though I think I hated her at the moment I felt a whole lot of love like I did when I was a little kid with her touching my butt and rubbing some of the fire out. Then I felt the paddle on my bottom and it didn't feel good. I started begging and pleading but my mom said she was going to give me twenty swats. I really yelled my head off with every swat. It stung worse than anything and after each swat it kind of penetrated. I don't know if she actually swatted me twenty times with that paddle, but it felt like hundreds. I have no idea what was going on. My mom was rubbing my bottom and lecturing or something, I don't even know because I was crying so hard and all I could think about was how sore my butt and legs were. My mom held me tight when we stood and she rubbed my bottom and I just cried all over her. It was really weird but I felt closer to her than I had in a long time. I realized that I had lost my pajama pants and underwear somewhere in the room. I layed on my bed and rubbed my butt, but it just seemed to get sorer and sorer. I put my finger in my butthole and that felt really good and then My left hand went, you know...there and it felt amazing. Well, I didn't mean to be so descriptive, I was just going to say I got spanked, but I'm glad to get it off my chest. I feel like I should tell my friend. I really want to but I can't. I mean I shouldn't. My mom told me that when I break a rule that's what's going to happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:02:54 12/07/25 Sun My sincere congratulations on making it, and I hope you will now specifically thank your mum for it!? It was really necessary and about time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:22 12/07/25 Sun Perhaps you would also like to know how she felt about it and can ask her about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Anna to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:24:26 12/07/25 Sun Hi Elsie, So, your mom finally paddled your bare bottom. You have been asking her to spank you and now you know how a sore paddled bottom feels. It sounds like she really blistered your bottom good. Are you having problems sitting down? How sore are you today. Bet you slept on your tummy last night. My 17-year-old daughter and 15-year-old son were both paddled together Friday afternoon after school on their bare bottoms for getting in trouble at school. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:00:07 12/07/25 Sun I kind of suspected this is what would happen. She was not waiting for the opportune moment so much, as it seems she knew you well enough to know you'd create a situation for yourself where she'd let you have it. Well, now you know what it's like. You earned this one, I'm afraid. This is a game-changer for you, Elsie. I hope you take advantage of it and make the necessary changes and continue to grow into the wonderful young adult woman you are. You have a mom who truly cares about you and is willing to do whatever is necessary to get you on the right track. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:52:23 12/07/25 Sun It is good that you really earned this spanking. You had a chance to honor your grounding, but instead you continued to be the bad girl you have been, and you paid the tangible price over mom's knee. It was no game, and now you can honestly say you know what an old-fashioned spanking is. Your bare butt sure knows. I'm glad you got through your punishment and came out the other side feeling better about yourself and closer to your mother. There is also an exciting element for you, which results in an even happier ending. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Alfred22 for Elsie (Happy for you!) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:18:22 12/07/25 Sun You did really well -- Brava! Spankings like the one you got really hurt. You didn't resist and you got through it. Here is the hard part: giving the right interpretation to it. Your conduct earned the spanking and perhaps several more. You may feel that NOW you have paid in full for your naughty behavior. But, and I admit this isn't easy, the right interpretation is different. You still should not have left food containers in your room, nor should you have flouted the detailed conditions of being "grounded." So, you still need to apologize and to feel regret for what you did. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:23:33 12/08/25 Mon Hi Elsie, You finally got what you wanted and also what you really needed. I would call that a REAL spanking which is one that you got for misbehaving and one that you have no control over. That means not being able to get away from her paddle. It happens to me regularly. Many years ago before I found my life mate/disciplinarian I would have happily changed places with you anytime. Your Mom really knows how to give a spanking and I wonder if she knew that from her youth or if she is a quick study and learned that from the research and notebook she read. Your feelings during and after your spanking are very close to mine when I am getting it. Now as far as deserving a spanking goes, you certainly did. Keeping dirty dishes in your room and whatever else you haven't mentioned including giving your Mom an attitude would have gotten you that every time here. You should not be eating in your room! Have you considered that sitting at the table with your Mom and exchanging thoughts and experiences of the day would make your Mom happy. You probably should have done it right after your bottom blistering. She just wants you to grow up to be a responsible adult and not just be an overgrown child. And speaking of that, what was the Thanksgiving event that you were asked to dress up for? We all have to outgrow sloppy behavior eventually. Better that happens before you get fired from your job for sloppiness. So don't forget to thank her for caring enough for you and giving you the spanking you needed and deserved. I wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us! Hugs, Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:02:17 12/11/25 Thu I can't believe it. I was 9 minutes past curfew. NINE MINUTES! I got home and saw the chair in the living room. My mom came out and said "What time is it?" I was like "Come on mom, it's not even ten minutes!" but she was firm about it. I followed her into the kitchen pleading my case but started having a panic attack when she got the paddle off the wall. That's about it. I got my pants and panties pulled down and got it with the paddle, no hand just the paddle. My butt has barely recovered from the last paddling. Tbh, I think this was unfair. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Para [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:41:06 12/11/25 Thu Playground 101: You can't complain about the rules if you're the one who made them up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:31:42 12/11/25 Thu Did you talk to her about it and thank her after the last time? If not, you should do it today! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:20:37 12/11/25 Thu Hi Elsie, In real life none of us get to make our own interpretation of a rule. And you agreed to getting spanked for breaking the rules. So are you objecting to your Moms interpretation of her rule or are you objecting to getting spanked for making your own interpretation of it? Let us say that in your first real job there is a meeting for 10:00 am for ten employees and you are just a little late in getting out of the house and miss the meeting start time by ten minutes. When you arrive you find nine people sitting in the room waiting for you. Your Mom is trying to see that you avoid hearing your boss say you're fired. We cant count on you being here on time. I ran this by my S/O this morning and she agrees with your Mom. I dont get to make my own interpretation of her rules here either. I either follow her rules or get spanked. And they are not fun spankings. So I guess I could use the old cliche and say welcome to my world! Next time be early by ten minutes! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:03:06 12/11/25 Thu Yes, Elsie is getting a wake-up call to the truth about spankings and hopefully the real world. Elsie’s mom is trying to show her the importance of being on time as Missy said. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:32:28 12/11/25 Thu Seems as though your Mom is now making sure you are held accountable. In the short term it may seem unfair or you now regret wanting to know how spanking feels. But in the long term it's for your benefit. Fast forward 10 years from now in a hypothetical scenario. You are applying for the "job of the century" and have an interview scheduled for 11 AM. You show up at 11:15. A few days later you find the job was given to someone else. You ask "why" and they said "We value punctuality here". You said "But I was only 15 minutes late". That would be the likely response of someone who was not held to account as a teenager or young adult as to being on time, or meeting some time-sensitive obligation like a curfew. Hang in there Elsie. Seems like you and your Mom are going through a transition, where she is adjusting her parenting methodology and you are finding out what spanking is truly all about. I will be $ that in the not too distant future, you will appreciate your Mom's new-found diligence. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:17:02 12/11/25 Thu If you truly believe it is unfair, then talk to your mom about it. At 19, should you not have some control over your own life? It was your idea for this discipline. At your age, do you really want to have a rigid curfew where you absolutely have to be home at an exact time? Then again, some people like having really strict discipline imposed on them. If so, let your mom do whatever she wants. She will decide what is "fair," which is just a subjective opinion anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Curious [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:06:37 12/11/25 Thu Hey, just wondering how 2nd spanking compared to 1st, worse or not as bad? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:58:57 12/12/25 Fri It's hard to say better or worse. The first one I was kind of expecting, but it was my first ever spanking and it was a lot worse than I ever thought it would be. This last one I wasn't expecting at all, surely not for being just nine minutes late and it was just the paddle and it was A LOT more than the 20 I got the first time. I mean the first one I got a much longer spanking, but mostly with my mom's hand and there was a long slow like warmup and I could get used to it. The second one my butt was still just a little bit tender and the paddle on my unspanked butt was a real shock. My mom wasn't as nice as the first time. And I didn't get it rubbed and I didn't get hugged. She just took me in my room and made me sit on my butt on a hard chair and told me to study like I was supposed to do. So I guess the second one was worse even though it probably wasn't as long. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:01:21 12/12/25 Fri And to make it worse my friend took me to the door so I don't know if maybe she heard. She didn't say anything, but I wouldn't expect her to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:19:43 12/12/25 Fri And have you thanked your mom now and asked her to be a little less harsh? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:09:49 12/12/25 Fri Hi Elsie, I sure wish I could see that notebook you gave to your Mom that really got this started for you. You could probably sell it! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Para [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:52:19 12/12/25 Fri I would love to see it too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: JenniAnn to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:51:06 12/12/25 Fri Poor girl, I think it was quite harsh to spank for only 9 minutes. But this is now what you probably can expect. So, now you know how it feels to be a big girl who is kicking hysterically over mom's lap while bawling your eyes out. How did this meet your excpectations so far? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Para [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:52:17 12/12/25 Fri I've got a sneaking suspicion that your mother is not new to this. She just seems too good at this to have never disciplined anyone before. It's possible that your notebook was so detailed and she studied it well that she became a master at it overnight, but she seems awfully good at this. I hope this doesn't make you mad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:21:29 12/17/25 Wed I don't know how that's possible. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked again Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:54:06 12/21/25 Sun Now that you mention it, it is curious. Maybe your mom has mentored girls. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:03:41 12/13/25 Sat I'm just staying home with my mom tonight because I don't want to get another spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:36:50 12/14/25 Sun Talk to her and thank her first. You can also suggest that she spanks you regularly every Sunday with the paddle, depending on how much you've earned during the week. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Lurker to pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:30:18 12/14/25 Sun You are incredibly annoying and boring. On and on you go telling her what to do; she's doing just fine and I'm glad to see she just ignores you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:59:37 12/14/25 Sun I'm glad you said it cause I was about to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:43 12/17/25 Wed Thanks for saying that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:40:03 12/16/25 Tue Hi Elsie, I agree that You're doing just fine! Don't try to change anything!! Trying to change anything would just make a mess out of what you have set up. You figured out how to get what you have wanted for a long time. Not many of us could have done that! When I was your age I was told I should be spanked a couple of times by two separate moms of my friends and I really wanted them to just do it, But I didn't have the nerve to smart mouth them again and trigger it. Are you staying home just because you don't think you can follow the rules? I am sure that your Mom enjoyed having your company!! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:32:53 12/17/25 Wed Actually I stayed home because I wanted to hang out with my mom. When I was younger I heard the moms talking about spanking. I think a few moms even suggested that my mom spank me. I remember one time when I was about 13 my best friend and her mom were over and I overheard her tell my mom that she gave her a good spanking. I got really excited. Unfortunately that's about all that was said. I wanted to talk to my friend about it but I couldn't. I hoped my mom would get inspired by it and maybe she would spank me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: The notebook Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:45:13 12/17/25 Wed It was actually more like a folder. Understand I've been putting it together for years. It started with a letter to my mom in great detail about my desire for discipline. How I knew growing up some of my friends got spanked and I felt left out, like I was missing something. I sited lots of incidents that I felt I should have been spanked for and felt guilty for not being punished. How being grounded just made me mad and how I knew it wouldn't stick anyway and knew how when I got grounded my mom was mad the whole time. I wrote and rewrote the letter a hundred times until I felt I got it right. I burned all the notes in the barbq pit. I copied some of the stories I read here, the ones that seemed real. I copied true accounts where I could find them. I copied pictures off the internet that matched what I thought a real mom/daughter spanking would be like. I wrote down links to videos that looked realistic. I wrote a list of rules I already had and I thought I should have and my mom added a whole bunch. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: The notebook Author: Alfred22 Bravi!! for both Elsie & Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:18 12/17/25 Wed Applause for Elsie and for her Mom! You both deserve some supportive cheers from all of us. It really does feel like a deep and abiding love has surfaced. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: The notebook Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:48:06 12/21/25 Sun OMG, was there anything about me in there? That's kind of scary. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:56:05 12/17/25 Wed Last night I got mouthy with my mom. This time she took me over to the couch and spanked me. It was just with her hand over my pajama bottoms (I was in my pajama bottoms because it was really cold and I wasn't going out anywhere and they were comfortable). Most of it was on my pants but I got my bottoms and underwear down and got spanked on my bare butt. Even though it was just her hand and mostly on my pj bottoms it still hurt. She said if I mouthed off again I'd get another with the paddle. I sure didn't want that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:05:29 12/17/25 Wed Have you had enough now? Your mom definitely deserves a big thank you! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:56:05 12/19/25 Fri Hi Elsie, I am ecstatically happy for you and your Mom the way this is turning out! I would say that you both care very much for each other and I think a lot of former tension is being removed! Spanking is supposed to do that!!! You have done a great job getting this going and I compliment you on that. I know that I could not have done that when I was your age. Be sure to continue updating us as to how this is going. I'm pretty sure you will be getting the paddle quite a few more times in the near future. I know it is what you wanted and even though you didn't realize what it would feel like I will bet that if you don't get it for a long time that you will be looking for it again. That is my observation of myself. Does your Mom know that you are posting here? Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:03:54 12/22/25 Mon Tbh I can't believe I did this. It's one of those things you think were well thought out and as soon as you do it it seems incredibly stupid. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:43:45 12/22/25 Mon Hi Elsie, Did you do something else or are you having second thoughts about asking for spankings? Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Moses [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:01:44 12/28/25 Sun I am new here, and I hope that I am not being too forward. I would like to ask, what do you hope to get out of these spankings? Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for sexual arousal? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation? I perceive hints of a lot of these things, but I am curious how you would describe it. I also have a fascination with spanking, but have not done anything with it. I don't know if it is a good idea or a bad idea. Either way, I loved reading through your account. Whatever happens, I wish you and your mom the best. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:53:01 12/29/25 Mon You asked Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for sexual arousal? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation?" I do get aroused by spanking, but mainly other people getting spanked. Now that I really know what it's like to get spanked by my mom I do find it's a relief to, um, you know. I mean there is this strange sort of arousal, but it has nothing to do with my mom and I don't want to get spanked now that I know what it's like. I do still have fantasies about getting spanked by a boss, teacher, boyfriend or girlfriend or something. I really like the student renter posts and Emmie Sue's posts and I think about myself in their position. "Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation?" All of the above. And since this started strangely I do feel a lot closer and more open to my mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Moses (to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:52:04 12/29/25 Mon I think it is important to remember that you initiated this with your mom for your own benefit. If you find the spankings are too frequent or too intense it is okay yo talk to your mom after and ask her to tone it down. If you think the rules are too strict or being enforced too strictly it is okay to talk your mom about changing them (BEFORE breaking them, as being able to talk your way out of an earned spanking ruins the vibe). I have read a lot of the Domestic Discipline Blogs. A consistent theme in all of them is how critical communication is. It seems like you are a shy and anxious person that has issues with communicating directly. I know a once Domestic Discipline family. Needless to say a combination of paranoia, failure to communicate, and getting carried away turned the whole thing into a fiasco leading to a lot of hurt feelings and damaged trust within both the family and their immediate community. There is a lot of reading I would recommend for you, and recommend you have your mother read as well. There is a 54 pg. instructional PDF called "Beginning Domestic Discipline" that, while directed at romantic life partners, offers a lot of information relevant to you as well. There was also a blog back in the day called "Discipline and the Modern Miss" that was directly analogous to your situation. The page "Disciplinarians Corner" was written from the perspective of the mom, and was very interesting. This blog no longer exists, but it should still be findable on Internet Archive. If not I have it downloaded and saved. Lastly, I would suggest your ask your Mom to join the forum. We would love to hear from her. It sounds like she is embracing all this, so I think she would enjoy it here as well. Sorry if this is too long, or seems preachy, or is ruining the vibe. I just want you to be safe, and I want you to succeed. I don't know if this is actually a good idea or not. Only time will tell. Will be excited for new updates. This is the most gripping story I have heard in a very long time from the spanking community. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:19:26 12/22/25 Mon But now you're happy and satisfied to have done it and know what it's like, isn't it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:39:11 12/25/25 Thu I think your Mom handled that situation well, based on the account you gave and thanks for sharing that. I say that because the threat to give you the paddle worked. Your behavior was corrected. This is the amazing thing about a properly administered spanking's effectiveness. There are other things that could have happened here I suppose, but they didn't. The simple concept of re-enforcing a statement with an embarrassing and painful event is often the best because it's over and done with. You move on after and so does Mom. Elsie, I wonder if subconsciously you really wanted more effective guidance, and that manifested as the desire to know what being spanked felt like. Hence this original post and so on. While we can speculate and analyze, it seems to be an effective consequence for you at this point. Nothing wrong with that at all. If anyone tells you different, okay, it's their opinion. You can walk away from this at any time if you wanted to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Does anybody know? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:58:53 12/23/25 Tue Does anybody know you get spanked but you and your mom? What if your mom told you to be good or you'll get a spanking in front of people over the holidays? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:28:23 12/28/25 Sun Hi Elsie, Did you make it through Christmas week without getting spanked? Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:42:09 12/29/25 Mon Last night I came home about 10. My weeknight curfew is 9. I thought that since I don't have school that there was no curfew or midnight like it is weekends. I explained that to my mom but she was having none of it. She said I was 'testing the waters'. Well...there may be some truth to that, but I really thought that not being a school night that curfew was irrelevant. I argued that point with my mom, but it just made her mad. I was probably already in trouble because I was supposed to take care of some things that completely slipped my mind. There were also some chores I was supposed to have done before I went out. In my defense, I did them, but my mom some they were only half done. You have to agree with me that my mom is really getting weird about this. She dragged me to my room and made me change into my pajamas. She made me bend over the bed, pulled my bottoms down and smacked me about 20 times with the paddle. I was crying and she made me go right to bed and said it was too late for a real spanking and since she was off work today I'd get it today. My butt was on fire when I went to bed. All day today I had to try to be real nice to her and hope she'd forget. She didn't forget and I tried to plead a case that I learned my lesson last night. But about an hour ago she put the chair in the living room, lectured me, pulled down my pants and undies and told me to go get the paddle. I started to cry and begged her. I can't tell you how scary, that's not even the right word, demeaning maybe, it was to take the paddle off the wall in the kitchen and hand it to her, especially with my pants around my ankles. I mean I could have tripped. I think this was the worst one yet. My butt is so sore. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:58:29 12/29/25 Mon Once again I don't know if my friend heard anything. I hope not. I think I would die if she knew. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marla to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:59:52 12/29/25 Mon Everything in your first paragraph is WHY you got spanked. She is not getting weird; you are pushing it and testing her. You got exactly what you agreed to and basically asked for. You are not the first girl to get the implement with your pants around your ankles. The only thing we dont know is whether or not you are sporting a bush in doing so. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marla to Elsie re: your friend [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:07:07 12/29/25 Mon Who is this friend you keep mentioning that you say you hope never hears anything? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:34:24 12/29/25 Mon You said ou got exactly what you agreed to and basically asked for." That's weird because that's what my mom has said every time I get a spanking, especially today. I don't think she said it last night though because she was p-i-s-s-e-d. I don't know what this means "sporting a bush" Do you mean pubic hair? I think I'll keep that to myself. My friend? She's basically my only friend. I mean I've got a circle of friends, but she's my only like close friend. I guess it would be alright if she knew. I think she'd understand but it would be really embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:36:45 12/29/25 Mon And my mom said it like a hundred times last night and today that there were a bunch of times over Christmas week she said I should have gotten a spanking. I don't think that's true though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: To Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:19:00 01/11/26 Sun Good morning, its been a while since we last heard from you - just wondering how you & your mom are getting along. More sessions with the paddle? Did you ever find out if your friend heard anything? What do you see as the path forward now that your mom has adopted your discipline request? Thanks in advance. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marla re your friend [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:38:55 12/29/25 Mon It seems to be of great interest to you that she hear you get it and know about it. I am taking a contrarian view to what you are actually saying vs what I think you mean and wish for... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:52:48 12/30/25 Tue And you are not overthinking it. You are not showing off your superior knowledge of the situation. You are merely sharing your more valuable opinion and, lucky for everyone, you will continue to do it. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:57:24 12/29/25 Mon You really must finally thank her sincerely! It's good to know that you can expect another spanking with the paddle. . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Para [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:09:30 12/30/25 Tue You know what I think? I think you knew exactly what you were doing and didn't expect the outcome. I think you knew that just because school is in break that your curfew still applies. I think you thought you would 'reason' with your mom and she, like in the past, before you unleashed the monster, you were going to talk her out of punishment. I think you thought your mom would never punish you during the holidays because it's the holidays. I think you purposely did your chores half assed so that you could go out, just to say you did them. I think the things you were supposed to take care of didn't slip your mind, but you just couldn't be bothered with them. I think you thought that because you've been getting away with your behavior during the holidays that you would continue to get away with them and pushed them a little further each time. I think you're trying to scam us into giving you sympathy and agreeing that you were treated unfairly. I think you're finding out that actions have consequences, which is what you craved in your life but you didn't realize how serious those consequences really are and are now having regrets. I think you want things on your terms and are disappointed to discover that you made those terms and now you have to live by them and you want to change the rules of the game in your favor. Sorry, too late for that. I know this sounds harsh, but it's the reality and in the long run it's good. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:36:24 12/30/25 Tue Of course, she only got what she deserved and needed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:23:22 12/30/25 Tue I think Marla and Para pretty much nailed it. There was a dynamic before your Mom started spanking you. That has changed and now you are adjusting to the change by testing the waters. I too do not think your Mom was being weird. She handled it well. Shuffling into the kitchen with your pants down to get the paddle was probably an act of humility. As far as pushing and testing limits, that's probably true and part of the shifting dynamic. We have a new year coming up. I wish you luck Elsie in keeping yourself out of trouble. That is all on you. I believe that if you think about your actions before taking them, it will help. The curfew issue was preventable, but the prior way of thinking probably allowed you to self-justify the hour late arrival at home. Thing to remember is that you are not a mistake, just a work in progress and there will come a time when the paddle in the kitchen will start collecting dust. Thinking precedes actions, and all actions we take have consequences. We of course want good consequences ideally. Which goes back to good thinking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:30:51 12/30/25 Tue You asked for a domestic discipline relationship with your mom. You surrendered to her authority and judgment. Now you either really don't like how she is exploiting that power, or you want to be treated this way and to share your adventures as a victim. The way you describe things, it sounds like you are into it but, if not, then what keeps you from telling your mother you will no longer be submitting to her unreasonable demands? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marla to Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:37:55 12/30/25 Tue Whatever! I find your messages have a "know it all" flavor. You overthink things a lot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:26:59 12/30/25 Tue Maybe everyone here is overthinking it. But I'm an analytical type. Whether a story is fact or fiction, I try to understand the thinking behind it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marly to Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:31:54 12/30/25 Tue No, you cop a superior holier than thou attitude that's not helpful. Para and Caring through Action both nailed it. You tried to prove you are smarter and above it all. And it's not the first time -- its what you do. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:53:54 12/31/25 Wed Are you a better person now than you were before spankings started? Think hard about this and if the answer is that you are, then enthusiastically thank your mom for helping you and agree to continue. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:20:54 01/14/26 Wed I've actually gotten 3 spankings since I last wrote. Two with the paddle. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Alfred22 for Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:36:36 01/14/26 Wed Does that mean that there are benefits or is this new world order in your house the proverbial can of worms that you deeply regret opening? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:20:57 01/16/26 Fri Thanks for sharing that update. TBH, I suspect the frequency will drop off as time moves forth and you adjust to the new paradigm. I guess as they say "Careful what you wish for". You wanted this, perhaps to not have "inconvenient" consequences like grounding and loss of phone. Maybe you didn't expect it to be a new consequence your Mom uses. Anyway, I hope it's helping you. Have a wonderful New Year! Good luck Elsie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Curious [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:45:57 01/27/26 Tue Elsie, are you gone for good - please come back occasionally and update! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:44:06 01/27/26 Tue Curious,she has probably had enough humble pie for now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:34:55 01/27/26 Tue Hi Elsie, maybe you could show this forum to your mom. Then she can write here about how she received your request and your notebook, how she experienced spanking you, and what the next steps should be... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:19:16 01/28/26 Wed That would be an interesting study in psychology, but no. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Me again Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:43:41 01/28/26 Wed You can try and bring it up; it would also be good and interesting for you to know how she felt about it last time, for example. Have you thanked her yet? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:15:25 01/28/26 Wed Sunday I got written up at work. Monday I was late to my first class back at school. I had my friend over yesterday. My mom came in my room and said we had some things to discuss. I knew that meant a spanking. My mom said my friend was welcome to stay but we were going to be busy for a long time. I think my friend knew, maybe not but as I was quickly escorting her out my mom had already put the chair in the living room. I know my friend saw it. At least she didn't put the paddle on the seat. I made sure she got in her car before I went in. My mom was very mad. She pulled down my pants and spanked on my legs then pulled down my panties and lectured me still slapping my legs. I had to go get the paddle with my pants around my ankles. I got both a hand spanking and a paddling. One of the worst ever. Because it was two very serious offences I was going to get another spanking before bed. I begged my mom not to but she did anyway. Then she noticed a ramen bowl on the headboard and smacked the paddle really hard. My butt is so sore and I'm imagining sitting on those hard school chairs. I will probably also have to see my friend and trying to figure out what I'm going to tell her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Monitor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:52:05 01/29/26 Thu So you are learning what happens to bad girls. In a traditional home, they have their pants taken down, and then sitting is uncomfortable for a few days. Probably not how you want to explain it to your friend. Maybe she won't be too curious about the "discussion" you had with your mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:40:39 01/30/26 Fri Apparently somehow my mom got my point removed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:47:58 02/04/26 Wed I wonder if she told your boss you got a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:02:57 02/06/26 Fri I haven't been on here for some time, but still pop in regularly. I have grave doubts about Elsie's genuineness, but will take it at face value for now. There are two things that spring to mind. 1. Why does Elsie behave so badly so often, knowing what the outcome will be, unless she really enjoys it. 2. It is obvious that mom derives a great deal of pleasure from giving spankings for every little thing, now she's got the bug. I find it quite disconcerting, but each to her own. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:04:12 02/11/26 Wed Alright, so you don't believe me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:32:16 02/12/26 Thu I have no idea whether you are truthful or not, but am giving tou the benefit of the doubt. That's why I am querying your and your mom's motives. It seems a perfect scenario for this forum. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:49:05 02/12/26 Thu I don't think it's so much that she's a naughty girl or her mom likes spanking her. I think it's just like "Okay, this is what you want." I mean the things Elsie says she got spanked for are far from her being labelled a naughty girl or her behavior is terrible, it's just little things that everybody does and never faces any consequences for. In all it sounds like she's a very good girl. And her mom is new to it (or at least new to spanking her daughter. It kind of sounds like she has otherwise experience), so she's making a point. It's only been a few months so maybe she's trying to make an impression. I hope you didn't run off another real one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:09:36 03/22/26 Sun Thank you Emmie Sue. I think maybe you're the only sensible person on here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: bad week Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:13:48 02/14/26 Sat As usual Emmie Sue, you've summed up my feelings perfectly. She is probably not behaving worse than before, but is now being punished for anything and everything. There must be some enjoyment on both sides for this new regime. I'm not sure what you mean by your last line. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Alfred22 for Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:00 01/28/26 Wed Not to worry. Your friend must have figured out many, if not all, of the details of your relationship with your mother. The easiest and best way to proceed is to ask if she is willing to talk with you about it. She might well say something along the lines of "Sure, if you want to." Or she might make it clear that she would rather not know any more and politely say "It seems rather personal; maybe later." I don't think that you have anything to fear from her not knowing: a single dining room chair in the center of the living room really has only one use. It is second only to the presence of a spanking paddle in terms of what it foretells. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Casey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:08:48 02/24/26 Tue Elsie, I get your apprehension, but please don't be scared to update. I admire your courage. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Me again Author: Missy to Elsie (Missy to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:41:22 03/01/26 Sun Hello Elsie, I have always looked forward to your posts of your progress but havent heard from you for quite a while. You may remember that I tried do something like that when I was quite little but never had the nerve to finally make it happen. Now I am making up for it! I hope you are doing well! Please come back!! Hugs! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:04:14 03/22/26 Sun Hi, it's me again. I quit updating on here for a lot of reasons. First there were a couple people on here getting really creepy. Then there were a couple people on here saying I was fake and I'm not fake. Then there was someone saying my mom was getting off on spanking me or I was getting off on it. If that was the case then why wasn't she spanking me a long time ago? I found out one thing for sure, I don't like getting spanked. Then there were people calling me a bad girl and I'm not. I don't do really bad things like a lot of people my age. I'm not disrespectful, sometimes I have some alcohol but not like a lot of people, I don't smoke, I don't steal, I'm not decietful, in all I'm a pretty good girl. And I started to feel kind of weirded out telling about my spankings. My friend knows. About a month ago we were out and I guess I wasn't supposed to go out. I knew I was going to get a spanking at some point because things were piling up. Anyway me and my friend came home and she was going to stay and we were going to study. When we opened the door the chair was there with the paddle on it. I freaked and froze and I think she did too. I tried to push her to my room so she wouldn't see it but my mom came out and greeted us. My mom told her we had some things to take care of but she was welcome to stay in my room. I kind of pushed my friend out the door. I got my butt paddled good. The next day my friend texted me admitting that she didn't go home. She stayed on the porch and listened through the door. We talked about it later. She was very understanding. I didn't tell her the whole story. I didn't tell her that it was my idea. She said she thinks a lot of girls our age get spanked. I was in some BIG trouble yesterday and I got paddled and good. My butt still hurts this morning. Later my mom and I talked in the kitchen. She said that now that it's Spring the next time I do something really really bad we're going to go out back and cut switches and I'm going to get a switching. I was like hey that wasn't in my notebook. She's like it's not about what I want. I'm not in charge. She was like the whole point was I would learn discipline and accountability. I mean, she's right. I've read stories and seen videos of switchings and I want none of that. I think my mom's just trying to scare me, but I don't know. That's an update. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:04:12 03/22/26 Sun The switching is really a good idea of ​​hers. You can definitely ask her why and how she plans to do it, and how it makes her feel. I understand it's not easy to write about this here, but I hope you'll do it again anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:30:56 03/22/26 Sun Sorry you feel unsure about this forum, Elsie. You say you got quite a paddling. You are still hurting the next morning. A switch has a nasty sting to it, but is it overall worse than a hard wood paddle? Opinions vary. If your mom says she will be cutting a switch, I would take her word for it. I hope you can stay out of trouble. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Moses [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:33:27 03/24/26 Tue I apologize if I came across as creepy. I do think you a real, and I don't think you are a bad girl. I do have questions about the wisdom and advisability of this whole arrangement. That said, it is the nature of these forums to be full of trolls, perverts, fakes, and cynics. It's just how things are around here. I do have an interest, arguable a fixation on this spanking and discipline stuff. I am just looking for real people to talk with that I can express that interest with and learn from their experience. Sorry if my excessive enthusiasm was off putting. I would like to talk to you more in a less toxic setting. Email me at mosesjames84@proton.me if interested. Emmie Sue as well. I don't want to hear from anyone else here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:09:05 03/25/26 Wed No thank you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:19:55 03/25/26 Wed I'm on Spring break. My mom found out I did something that was sort of like what I got spanked for a few days ago. She called me and told me when she gets home she better find the chair and paddle in place. So I've got to wait around a couple of hours knowing I'm going to get a spanking. I set up my phone to record my spanking. I'm going to send it to my friend so she can see how I get spanked. She's asked questions about it. I know this is stupid, but I'm doing it anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Updates Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:55:44 04/23/26 Thu I didn't actually do that. Spanking is pretty much out in the open between me and my mom and my friend. It's like "I know you know and she knows you know I know and you know she knows I know" kind of thing. The other day we were helping my mom cook and my friend goes "I'll chop an onion. I can use that cutting board on the wall." She did that on purpose and I gave her a look like I can't believe you, you b-word. And my mom said "Oh, that's not for cutting. That's used for something else." I was SO embarrassed. I know there was one other time my friend listened at the door when I got it. Just a quick update. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]