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Subject: Did you ever tell your friend?


Author:
Elsie
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Date Posted: 02:47:57 11/21/25 Fri

Did you ever tell your friend you get spanked or could get spanked?
What was their reaction?
Were they understanding?
Did they tease you?
Did they ever know you got spanked?
How did you tell them?

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


Author:
peterK68
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Date Posted: 04:25:12 11/22/25 Sat

In the 1960's we were all in the same boat.
My friend Billy, his older brother Jack was my sitter for a time & all sitters had spanking privileges back then in the South. The time he spanked me Jack told Billy & Billy was both amused & also a bit sorry for me.

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 06:55:36 11/23/25 Sun

No way I would have told anyone. This would have been way too embarassing. But they still found out in high school and I got teased and bullied for still being spanked.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


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Robert to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 07:39:45 11/23/25 Sun

Dear JenniAnn,
I have read your full account of how your spankings at home were found out and I really feel bad for you every time I read about it. I can't imagine the embarrassment and shame that went along with that. I only wish I had been there to offer some comfort and support.

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


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Alfred22 for JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 07:26:36 11/26/25 Wed

I share Robert's feelings for you. Try not to internalize the guilt. I got two punishments that were public and involved other scouts. These were collective punishments and I did nothing myself to earn them.

It was quite insensitive of your peers to tease you and bully you. At least now you are hearing countervailing interpretations. Stay strong and benefit from the attempts to belittle you.

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


Author:
Gisela
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Date Posted: 15:36:00 11/29/25 Sat

Like Peter, I would say that we were all in the same boat back then, so the fact itself wasn't a big deal. But I had a friend at school with whom I shared all my fears, emotions, and details, and vice versa. And that may have been rather unusual, since we weren't related or anything. Just friends.

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Alfred22 for Gisela
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Date Posted: 07:50:52 12/09/25 Tue

You were so fortunate to have such an understanding friend.

I had one friend but he was convinced that I wasn't ever really and properly spanked. So, sharing any details with him just prompted more teasing about "how one has never been licked until one has been licked with the razor strap!" He actually asked me on a sleepover if my mother would object if his mother spanked me. I am sure his plan was to get both of us in trouble!

He was definitely right that I had never gotten a real one but I didn't have the nerve to get it from his mother. She spanked with the rubber flyswatter that she showed his sister in my presence and apparently once at least with THREE switches. He broke three glasses dishwashing and that prompted the switching. I was way too scared of her to risk a "spanking" from her!

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


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Meg
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Date Posted: 20:18:17 11/29/25 Sat

no way i would ever tell my rl friends that.

some knew i got them when younger, but even then that was not through me telling them. They do not know they still happen sometimes, or atleast i really hope they don't.

Meg

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[> Subject: Re: Did you ever tell your friend?


Author:
Para
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Date Posted: 16:09:56 12/12/25 Fri

I've told friends who are part of the scene but I don't think that's what you mean.

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