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Subject: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:56:34 12/26/25 Fri I’m not sure if domestic discipline is okay to discuss here but if it is, I wanted to see if anyone has any experience? My hubby and I do it and we wondered what people do when they have family/friends over and you get in trouble? It happened to me this week. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:34:01 12/26/25 Fri My husband and I practice DD. I get a weekly maintenance spanking in addition to any punishments ones. We have a code word we use for if I get in trouble when we have people over. This way I know I will get spanked without causing too much of a scene. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:36:46 12/26/25 Fri Would he spank you with people over? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:52:02 12/26/25 Fri Only if we know they are also a DD couple. I would say it is very rare when that happens. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:01:31 12/26/25 Fri I’ve thought about talking to my Mom about it and my husband is in full support of it. My Mom and stepdad are not shy about that kind of stuff and I was spanked by them until I moved out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:08:46 12/26/25 Fri I was spanked by my parents through college. So I get where you are coming from. My questions would be…how undressed would you be? Bare? Naked? Who would be spanking you? What would they be using? Did you act out in front of them or does your husband just want to spank you in front of people? I recall getting spanked as a teen with my sisters and cousins as a few family parties. But we all acted out together, so we were punished together. Bare bottom waiting our turn with the brush. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:12:34 12/26/25 Fri No, I got in trouble while they were staying with us. I was told I would be spanked but he decided to wait since they were over. That’s why I got it today. he already spanks me. He just wasn’t sure how they’d react. I did act out in front of them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:17:34 12/26/25 Fri It sounds like the situation has been dealt with. I hope you learned your lesson [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:18:51 12/26/25 Fri Oh trust me, I did! We’re still new and trying to figure things out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:29:43 12/26/25 Fri For me staying naked post spanking really ensures I learn my lesson [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:31:26 12/26/25 Fri I get spanked naked sometimes, it depends on what I’ve don’t. I have to do corner time and if the spanking was naked, then the corner time is. It sucks but I can get dressed afterwards. What do you do if people come over? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:37:06 12/26/25 Fri We wait. I hate waiting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:30:38 12/26/25 Fri How did he spank you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:44 12/26/25 Fri This one was bad so it was naked. It started with me over his lap on our bed with his hand. Then he used the paddle. He finished with the belt and me in tears. My butt and legs were on fire. I had to do 30 minutes in the corner after that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:11:41 12/26/25 Fri That sounds like a proper spanking. I have been there so many times. After a spanking like that my husband will either use my bottom or mouth. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:45:01 12/26/25 Fri We’ve chosen not to mix spanking and sex. I don’t like spanking, I just realize I need it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Cari [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:12:01 12/26/25 Fri Belle, That was the worst when I had to wait and watch while a sibling/cousin got spanked and I was also in for it. As a teen it made me angry that we all got bared at once so I had to stand there with my bare bottom and front all exposed while the others were spanked. They could just as easily let us keep panties/underpants up and then take them down when it was our turn to be spanked. As a spanked wife I often have to do corner time in just my bra while I wait for my hubby to spank me. It’s scary/embarrassing especially if I have to be holding the paddle or belt. There have been times when my parents and/or his parents are there to witness. Trust me, it’s very hard to have to turn around and face everyone. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:32:43 12/26/25 Fri Waiting bared watching your sister/cousin’s bottom turn red knowing it will be your turn soon was terrible. Sometimes in these situations whoever was the spanker was would say first one bare goes first Holding the implement while in the corner is so mean! The post corner time turn when there is an audience is so humbling [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Cari [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:35:40 12/28/25 Sun Belle, Yes it was humiliating standing there half-naked waiting to get spanked. Especially with several other adults etc watching us take our spankings. I could feel everyone’s eyes on my bush and butt! We were. usually spanked youngest to oldest so I was often second or last which was so unfair! Wow, “first one bare” must have sent off a scramble of girls rushing to get their panties off! Shameful but I bet it was fun for others to watch? Yes, having my parents/in-laws behind me while I’m in the corner in just my bra is extremely uncomfortable and hearing them discuss my discipline is horrid! It’s so hard to turn around on command. I usually start weeping my face blazing red and I’m not allowed to cover so my bush is front and center for all to see. Every spanking, paddling, strapping leaves me burning red and bawling like a baby. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: ALguy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:59:36 12/28/25 Sun Cari, that is the effect a spanking should have. At least you have a bush not to totally show your private parts. It would be much more embarrassing if you shaved bald. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Diana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:28:23 12/26/25 Fri I am in a domestic discipline marriage. My husband gives me a weekly maintenance spanking plus a much worse punishment spanking when I misbehave. My parents spanked me all through college and still spank me if I misbehave in their presence. My husband has spanked me in front of them quite a few times. My spankings are almost always naked, and then I have naked cornertime and sometimes have to stay naked even after that. I'd love to chat with other wives who receive domestic discipline. I'm also setting up a Voy forum about domestic discipline -- details after the first of the year. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:30:35 12/26/25 Fri Your forum sounds amazing. I’d love to chat with other wives in DD relationships. Your spankings sounds so similar to mine [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Layla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:46:47 12/26/25 Fri We don’t do maintenance spankings, thankfully. I was spanked until I moved away as well, now my hubs spanks me. I think they have an idea but we haven’t officially told them. Though I think they’d support it. I’m happy to chat as well! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:48:02 12/28/25 Sun Hello. What I can say to introduce myself. I am in a loving domestic spankings/discipline marriage for almost 14 years. I am an educated professional woman. But at home, being in a traditional, "old-fashioned" male-dominated relationship (with REAL spankings being possible for me) is very important. I participated regularly on an old voy domestic discipline forum that suddenly disappeared over ten years ago. I would like to discuss domestic discipline and spankings again in a forum like this. Diana, your new forum about just Domestic Discipline sounds fantastic! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question Author: Agelmar Jargad [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:07:14 12/27/25 Sat Here's something for people who are interested in or live with DD. https://www.amazon.com/-/de/dp/B0D2PBSWNN [ Post a Reply to This Message ]