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Subject: Re: Desire for discipline

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Xylo

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Date Posted: 15:04:25 01/01/26 Thu
In reply to: Xylo 's message, "Desire for discipline" on 14:23:55 12/28/25 Sun

Sorry I left it out of my first message but I am male. I have indeed talked to my mom some about it. I told her mostly the same I said here, about in what ways I think it would benefit me. She listened to what I had to say and I think took it to heart, but she is on the fence about whether or not she feels comfortable doing it. She wants to help me and she understands why I feel it would help me, but she just isn't sure she feels it's right from her pov. Which I do understand, to be fair. As far as everyone that lives in the house here goes, I'm the least trouble for her. Im always the one that helps around the house and stuff like that, so in her mind it's like "well he hasn't done anything that's punishment worthy."
The most trouble we ever have is verbal disputes, and times when I just simply aren't enough help like if I'm especially lazy and she ends up doing it all herself. I told her that I do actually feel genuinely bad when those things happen but it's always forgiven pretty quickly and we move on. I guess in some ways that kinda bothers me too? Like maybe on some level I feel like when those things happen, I should be punished for it? Idk, it's all a bit jumbled in my mind the more I think about it. Hopefully I'll have an answer from her soon, she is giving the whole situation some.thought, and she does a good job of taking everything into consideration in regards to how I feel typically. So here's to hoping this goes the way I hope. Thank you all for the kind words and all of the encouragement. I update you all accordingly.

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[> Subject: Re: Desire for discipline
Author: pat [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 21:07:15 01/01/26 Thu Your thoughts are very interesting, and I sincerely hope that a strict, relentless beating, the kind you need, will clear your head, whether once or regularly... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]