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Subject: Re: An Interesting Development

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Rental Mom

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Date Posted: 13:07:22 10/13/20 Tue
In reply to: Rental Mom 's message, "Advice" on 10:20:15 10/12/20 Mon

I admit I sometimes act a little mom-like at times with my tenants and I'm not sure I realized it until now, but I especially act mom-like with Amanda. I do check up on their studies and give a little nudge when needed. I decided to test the waters with Amanda and act real mom-like. I went into her room and caught her texting away on her bed. I asked her if she had any homework to do. She said she had to write an essay which when pressed is due tomorrow. Here's a summary of the conversation.
"Is that what you're doing now?"
"Well, um...no."
"How close are you to finishing it?"
Well, actually I haven't actually started it."
Don't you think you had better get started on it?"
Her desk was a mess, so I started to straighten a place at her laptop. And what do you think I uncover? Right there under a notebook next to her laptop is a joint. I could have turned her over my knees right then and there, regardless of whose daughter she is and turned her butt black and blue. She tried to tell me she found it and was going to throw it away. She finally admitted it was hers.
"What if the girls had come in here and found it?" I think that struck a chord with her. I told her to flush it down the toilet right now.

I sat down with her and reminded her about our conversation and the alternative she came up with. I asked her what happens to the girls when they misbehave and what she proposed I do instead of evicting her. I made her say it clearly. I wanted to hear her say the word 'spanking' from her own mouth so we would both be clear what the consequences would be and that she is the one who suggested it. I moved the chair out and told her to sit her butt down and get that essay finished, then write a very clear proposal of her misdeeds and what she accepted to be the consequences as an alternative to eviction. We would both look it over and discuss it.

I told her that she had a lot of misbehaviors to make up for that I have let slide and it would not be a few pats on the bottom, but it would be just as I give the girls and I made her say "on bare bottom" and it would be adult size. She asked for a 'huggie' so I hugged her very mom-like and told her that we both need some time to think about it. Then I pointed to the seat of the chair and told her to get busy.

Well, it's out in the open now. I'm still not fully decided on this, but I feel like I've just adopted a daughter.

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Justin
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Date Posted: 14:16:21 10/13/20 Tue

Wowwie...that is quite the development indeed!! She sounds like someone that could really use some accountability in her life. Someone that isn't afraid to ask her the tough questions and help keep her on the straight and narrow.

I wonder if she did drugs a bit at home or if she is only doing it now since she is no longer living at home. You are right to be very angry that she would just leave a joint out in the open like that. Good for you for having the self control not to just turn her over your knees and spank her very hard. That must've taken a lot of self control.

I hope you do adopt this girl as a sort of surrogate daughter. I know this will change your relationship greatly but is that such a bad thing. She was already more then just a tenant to you, this is just taking it to the next level. I will be very interested to hear what kind of proposal she comes up with for you.

Long term, I think she will be grateful that you are giving her this opportunity and considering her a part of your family that you would even consider this alternative to eviction.

There needs to be more people like you in the world!! Super Moms we call them, that's what my mom is and I love her dearly. Thanks for keeping us up to date with the new developments!!

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Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 20:12:13 10/13/20 Tue is there much of a size difference between you two? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: Maddie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 01:02:29 10/14/20 Wed Do you think she left the marijuana there knowing you would find it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: Rental Mom (Mom) [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:30:40 10/14/20 Wed No, I don't think so. She would have had no way of knowing I was going to come into her room and move her stuff around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]