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Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Alfred22 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:05:06 10/11/22 Tue In reply to: Ashley-91 's message, "Re: Bruises and aftercare?" on 06:39:32 10/03/22 Mon Greetings Ms. A-91: Does your maturing mean that now you don't need corrective punishments? If so, are the fun-ishments or non-corrective "punishments a good enough substitute? Or do you still need the real thing? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Ashley-91 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:01:20 10/11/22 Tue Hi Alfred, Even though I am maturing I still need a corrective punishment once in a while. I also receive weekly maintenance which I’ll admit blurs the line a bit between fun-ishment and non-corrective punishment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:23:13 10/11/22 Tue Hello Ashley-91! Weekly Maintenance is a lot! But it is good to have reminders scheduled. That way you have no temptation to deliberately engage in brat conduct just to get spanked. And no awkward sessions with hubby having to say Please spank my bare bottom! How intense are those maintenance sessions? What does your husband use on you? Are you bb over his lap? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Ashley-91 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:36:34 10/12/22 Wed Hi Alfred, yes weekly maintenance was a game changer for us. My husband administers it in our bedroom instead of his study where corrective punishments occur. It consists of a firm otk spanking on the bare, followed by a few each of his belt, paddle, and cane as reminders. Corner time and lecture before and after then ending in a warm bath and fun in bed. This really clears my mind and starts my week of well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:26:02 10/13/22 Thu Great idea. Use a different room for the "corrective" ones. That allows you to keep them totally separate. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare? Author: Ashley-91 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:44 10/14/22 Fri Yes it is very effective, zero intimacy associated with corrective punishments down in his study, he’s all business. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]