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Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate

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Date Posted: 17:35:24 01/16/23 Mon
In reply to: Clair 's message, "Re: I'm going to spank my roommate" on 06:46:21 01/15/23 Sun

A couple of thoughts on your recent updates:

"She said this very confidently, but it was the first I'd ever heard of it. I was actually planning to go out and celebrate the new year. "Oh yeah, we discussed it, remember?" I swear to God we never had this conversation."

I wouldn't be surprised if you come across this move again. If you ever get license to discipline at your discretion it would be fun to bring it up and see what she has to say about it. Will she willingly acknowledge the lie? Did others, perhaps her parents, let her get away with that sort of manipulation? etc.

"I already know she's into spanking, but does she actually want to get spanked is the question."

It's true that's a separate question. Her bringing up the subject of motivation is a pretty strong hint, but you aren't going to get a conclusive answer without talking about it overtly.

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Go at your own pace. You sharing your thoughts and experiences with this makes for interesting reading regardless of how it turns out.

It does seem like you're a little worried of being exposed as a spanking fetishist. It's understandable. You do though here have the option to simply turn it around on her. Accusing the accuser is often a little distasteful, but it's different here. You can bring in some evidence. Maybe taking some time to imagine how you might respond if you were attacked for "being into spanking", might make you a little more relaxed about the prospect of talking about it. You could say that the thought of providing her with some motivation, combined with overhearing the mom next door handing out some good spankings, not to mention her own childish behavior and her seeming sensitivity to talk about corporal punishment sure makes it seem like spanking would be a good fit for her, but if not that's OK too. Or something along those lines.

You have some plausible deniability here. But you don't have to deny "being into spanking" all you would need to do is deny bringing it up out of the blue and that's easy. There's plenty of context here to explain you bringing up the possibility.

Perhaps the next time you overhear a spanking next door you can smile at her and ask if that's the kind of motivation that would do her some good.

I think it would be a hard subject for her to talk about though if there's some physical distance between you. Imagine being in her shoes. She's likely more afraid of exposure than you are. She's the one who would look and feel really weird if her feelings aren't reciprocated, plus being potentially exposed to her peer group, plus possibly losing out on a great living situation. For her to be overt is a lot to ask from her. If she still occasionally comes to your bed that could be a time and place where it's easy for her to talk about it.

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Author: Clair [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 18:06:38 01/17/23 Tue These are some great things. I will have to read this again and concentrate. Thanks. And thanks for not pressuring me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]