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Subject: Re: Settling into this lifestyle Author: Clair [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:31:36 05/27/23 Sat In reply to: Clair 's message, "I'm going to spank my roommate" on 07:11:30 12/15/22 Thu My thoughts and fantasies since childhood have certainly evolved. Probably since adolescence I've dreamed of having someone under my authority and giving lots of very hard spankings. I never dreamed that in reality it could ever be possible. By the time I got into college I certainly enjoyed the fantasy but began to realize how absolutely absurd it was to think that that could ever happen in rl. Having Jayda live with me, her being naturally submissive and in need of practical guidance and responding to an 'authority figure' it began to not seem so absurd. Then it actually happened. The first time was extremely awkward, but spontaneous. Afterwords it seemed even more absurd that it ever happened. I decided that I was a terrible person and that would never happen again, but it did. When I look back it seems like a year, but I realize its only been a few months since I first turned her over my knees. The first few times I had huge guilt and really reevaluated my sanity. Now it seems we've both settled into our roles. I still feel horrible guilt and question my sanity, but it seems to be working and I like it, I think Jayda does too. It has created other burdens that I didn't consider in my lifelong fantasies or even when I first put her in the corner or spanked her. It's like I feel responsible for this other person. That never entered my plans. Nothing really to report except that on Thursday I gave her a damn good spanking and sent her to the bath. Just thought I'd share some of my thoughts. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Settling into this lifestyle Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:21:19 05/27/23 Sat You are neither a horrible person nor a mental case. I suspect that you are the best thing thing that has ever happened to Miss Jayda and she one of the better things for you. Enjoy these discoveries and the bonds they are creating. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Settling into this lifestyle Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:44:54 05/27/23 Sat I agree with Alfred. The fact that you now feel responsible for Jayda's development is what an ethical person would feel. You spank and influence because you wish her to be a better version of herself and it is clear to you that she needs to arrive at that place. So, you feel an obligation to get her there and are keen to steer her in the right direction and make her a responsible and desirable person on many fronts or her future development. Your conclusion, that you express and not expected, is simply a natural aspect of you being a good person who cares about others and wants them to do the right thing. Yeah, and sure, there is the sexual aspect and excitement for you, but at its base rest a sound moral foundation. Keep that in mind going forward. And enjoy what you have. It is rare and both of you are lucky to share the symbiotic relationship you have. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Settling into this lifestyle Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:09 06/04/23 Sun WS says it all so well! I will just say that I second the motion. My only regret is that Clair writes so eloquently that this thread remains totally riveting and keeps expanding without bounds! We all wish them the best! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Settling into this lifestyle Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:57:48 06/04/23 Sun Oh shucks, I'm not all that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]