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Subject: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:23:07 09/24/23 Sun I was searching to see if this has ever happened to anybody before. I found a lot of fantasy story pages and porn then I came across this site. I am a college student in my junior year. I lived in the dorms for my first two years. I've known this lady since my freshman year. She is really nice and we always got along great. I guess she's about 50. She's a widow and has two grown daughters. She has been very nice to me, like inviting me over for dinner and giving me things. We talk a lot and I can confide in her and she's very understanding so I see her as an aunt or like a substitute mom. She invited me to live at her house this semester. I told her I didn't want to live in the dorms again and I couldn't afford to live on my own so she said she has two empty rooms and invited me to live there. We talked. She didn't ask for any money but just asked me to help around the house, get good grades and she had a few simple rules, nothing too crazy. I admit I haven't really been living up to my side of the agreement. Sometiomes I argue with her and give her attitude and don't really follow curfew. Things kind of blew up on Friday. Now that I think about it she wasn't being unreasonable or anything and I kind of got into it with her and gave her a bunch of attitude. We were in the dining room and the next thing I knew she grabbed my arm and I was over her knees with my skirt up getting a spanking. A real one. It happened so fast. At first I was like "Hey, what the hell is going on?" The first few spanks I think I was just more offended than anything but it was really starting to hurt and I soon realized that I was really getting a real spanking. She wasn't messing around. She actually yanked my panties down in a flash before I could even do anything about it and she was spanking my bare butt. I actually started to cry. I just gave up and took my spanking. When she let me up all I could do was rub my butt and cry and wonder what the f##k just happened. My butt felt like I just sat in a fire. She said "I'm sorry, but you really had that coming" or something like that and hugged me. She put her hand on my burning butt and said it was really hot kind of laughing. So I just stood there for like ten minutes with my panties around my shoes rubbing my burning butt trying to figure out if what just happened actually happened. I still can't believe it happened. She had never said if you do this then this will happen, never said anything about consequences or anything like that. She just had a few simple rules and that was it. I admit it was deserved. I guess when I think about it I've really taken advantage and been hell to live with the past four weeks. I never expected this. I'm not mad at her or anything, because I know I deserved it, but really what the hell? It just happened so fast. We haven't talked about it and I don't know if it's a one off or if this is going to become a thing. I hope not. Well, I wanted to tell somebody about it and I'm glad I found this group. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:47:36 09/24/23 Sun Hi Livie, Welcome aboard! Thanks for sharing this with us! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:46:46 09/24/23 Sun Why does good stuff always happen to others and never me? How long did your spanking last? How many spanks did you get? Could you sit down the next day? Was it just with her hand? Have you ever gotten a spanking before? Did you like it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:12:01 09/25/23 Mon I can't answer some of your questions because I have no idea. It just happened so fast. I could sit down, but I could feel it. Yes, just her hand. Fuck no I didn't like it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:47:34 09/24/23 Sun Thanks for telling us about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Victoria [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:07:36 09/24/23 Sun It sounds like you got just what you deserved. Welcome to the club. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:45:56 09/24/23 Sun I just think that you did need it, and not for the last time [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:09:25 09/25/23 Mon It hurt like hell, that's too weak a word and it burned for a long time and my butt was still hurting Saturday and still a little tender on Sunday. It was embarrassing, humiliating and whatever other word you want to use. I did not like it at all, I can't think of anything good to say about it. I can't even imagine why people on here could even like it. My butt still has bruises on it. What I will say is this. It made me realize what a brat, to use a polite word I've been. I totally understand why she did it. She took me in, doesn't charge me anything. has always been so kind to me, buys me stuff and all she asks is that I help her around the house, get good grades and study and follow a few simple not unreasonable rules and I guess I kind of betrayed her trust and have been a complete ingrate. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:23:18 09/25/23 Mon Hello Miss Livie, Would you say then that even though you didn't like it, the spanking accomplished its purpose? Have you told her what you just told us, and maybe thanked her for teaching you what you learned? Hugs! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:04 09/25/23 Mon First question, YES DEFINITELY Second question, NO DEFINITELY NOT. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:49:28 09/26/23 Tue Hello again Miss Livie, I take it by your capitalized response that you haven’t resolved this in your mind yet. I am guessing that you have never been spanked before by your parents so I can understand your confusion. Perhaps I can explain a few things that will help you to understand this. Your hostess obviously likes you and wanted to do something nice for you. She probably misses having her daughters around and was looking forward to your company. It sounds like she was treating you like her own daughter. Now as far as the spanking goes, she was raised in an era when spanking was a normal response to bratty behavior. Her daughters probably felt a few spankings from Mom themselves. I know what was normal in her time because I am one of the older members here and when I was growing up my friends and I just knew that if we behaved badly we were going to get spanked. And it was usually with a paddle or strap. We tried to avoid it. It usually only took one or two spankings to put an end to bad behavior. I think you owe it to your hostess to acknowledge your admitted bad behavior. Hopefully you will correct that going forward. I believe that someday, no matter how you feel about her spanking you in exasperation, that you will look back and consider her to be one of your best friends. Hugs, Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:07:36 09/29/23 Fri Last night me and (I'll call her) Agnes were sitting around talking and she said that she was really impressed with my turnaround since Friday. She said I was the sweet, intelligent girl she invited to move in and things like that. Then she says let's go shopping and I was thinking "Oh cool". We went to Target. Didn't get a cart. We went straight to the hair accessories area, like she was leading me. At first I was just looking around but she was only interested in hairbrushes. I started getting an uneasy feeling when she was like fondling various ones, checking them for sturdiness and asking my opinion. Then she started focusing on the wood ones, rubbing them against her hand and I started to get a pretty good idea what she was doing. I was starting to feel sick, especially when there was a mom and daughter in the isle that looked like they knew what was going on. One had a longer hand, thick, wide and that's the one she really examined even smacking it in her hand. We didn't do anymore shopping, just went to the checkout and we couldn't use self checkout. She gave me $25 and told me to buy it. The cashier was probably in high school and said "Is this all you need?" Agness said "Is this a good sturdy hairbrush?" The girl looked it over and said it looked sturdy and Agness must have made some kind of sign language or something and the girl said "Ohh, yeah my mom has one a lot like this. Ya it works." I could have died. When we got home and that seemed like the longest drive she put it on the table and said "We'll just leave this right here as a reminder and convenient if we need to use it." I couldn't even say anything I just looked at it. Then she said let's go out to dinner and that's what we did. So I guess I better not f##k up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Cherem [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:46:57 09/29/23 Fri How old were mom and daughter? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:21:41 09/29/23 Fri Hello Miss Livie, I’m happy to hear that you changed and that Mrs. Agnes noticed enough to compliment you on it! My opinion is that Mrs. Agnes realizes that the spanking did you some good and I doubt that the hairbrush will ever be used again. It’s just there as a deterrent to possible backsliding. This reminds me of my elementary school years when some teachers at the beginning of class placed their paddle on the chalk tray as a reminder to all. I wonder if Mrs. Agnes ever experienced that as a student. Also, it was common practice to see a paddle or strap hanging in the foyer of the homes of some of my friends. I know you did not like being spanked at all. There are a few girls here who would love to trade places with you. A few years ago I may have been one of those girls, haha! Hugs! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:52:47 09/29/23 Fri I'm going to go with this on the assumption Livie is on the up and up. Livie, given your use of the "F" word I think you have a lot of growing up to do. It is obvious that Agnes plans on helping you via the new hairbrush. You have a choice. You can be angry and resent and even fight when it's time for your next spanking or you can co-operate and take it in the spirit it is given to you, to help you grow up happy and successful. I suggest you tell Agnes you want to talk to her about spanking and then tell her you realize you deserved the spanking she gave you, that you know she did it to help you, that you are going to try to learn from it and be a happier better person and while you hope it won't happen again if she feels she has to spank you then you'll try to co-operate as best you can and try to learn from it, not be resentful or angry. Good luck, Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:14:16 09/29/23 Fri In all honesty I have to agree with Mindy 101%. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:24:09 09/30/23 Sat Mork and Mindy, why would you think this isn't real? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:08:49 10/07/23 Sat Any new spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:11 10/08/23 Sun You, Miss Livie, have several options. One would be to deny her (Agnes) the opportunity to spank you ever again. Enforce this denial with the offer to pay the market-rate for your room and the threat of an assault charge. I don't recommend this choice. Another option is to carry on as if her discipline was acceptable and that you are cool with the upgrade to her new hairbrush. The upgrade will really be just that. If you thought her hand on your bare bottom burned, you will be absolutely astounded at how much more a hairbrush can tingle. Or as other wise members of the 243310 community have suggested, have a forthright discussion with Agnes. I strongly favor the discussion approach. Clearly you benefit from a firm spanking. If you are totally a non-spanko, you can tell Agnes that fact. She will respect that spankings are to be earned by misconduct ONLY! Then, don't earn any. If you slip and mess up, be appropriately grateful for her generosity and concern for your improvement. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:48:14 10/15/23 Sun Hi, no no more spankings, although I wouldn't count it out. That hairbrush is still on the table and just stares at me. Anytime I think about doing something stupid I see it there and it reminds me that I don't want to go through that again. I've had friends over and I know they notice it. I have no idea if they have any clues as to why it's there, but I get a little sick when I see them looking at it and in my head I'm thinking they know. One friend in particular has been over and just stares at it. I have no idea what's going on in her head, but it makes me paranoid that she knows. I wont say I've been a perfect angel since Agnes spanked me. I have gone off a few times, but that whole scene comes back to my mind and I just stop. I will be truthful that that spanking and seeing that hairbrush on the table and knowing I could get another one and worse even and also knowing that I hurt Agnes makes me think about my behavior or my choices. It really put things in perspective and made me realize what a brat I can be. Not saying that I'm glad it happened, but I admit it did me a lot of good and knowing it could happen again makes me think twice about my options. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:50:28 10/15/23 Sun The reason I came on here to update is because last night I came real close to going over the edge, but I saw the brush and immediately stopped. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:04:29 10/15/23 Sun Hi Livie, We've missed you, Thank you for coming back!! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:03:27 10/17/23 Tue Livie, We are all glad that you are having positive benefits. If you do get another one, to what will you attribute it? The moderate ones can be both beneficial and fun! You got the real disciplinary thing. No one likes another that firm. Well, almost no one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Fran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:27:17 10/16/23 Mon It sounds to me Livie, that the spanking you got from Agnes was long overdue. Now that you have been properly spanked and the hairbrush is sitting on the table, you know what to expect if you misbehave in the future. The spanking and the hairbrush obviously had the desired effect on you, as you are thinking twice before acting. That's exactly what spankings and the threat of spankings are supposed to accomplish. When I grew up in the 1950's and 1960's, almost every home had a paddle. strap or hairbrush in plain sight as a reminder to behave. And if we didn't behave, we would suffer the consequences. You are very fortunate to have found a woman like Agnes who cares about you enough to provide the maternal guidance and discipline that you obviously need. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:12:11 10/20/23 Fri Hi, I coudnt agree more with Fran, you coudnt say it better, Fran. Livid, you didn’t tell us what happend that you came close to a spanking? Was there a spanking treat? I also wonder if the spanking was discussed between you and Agnes after everything was back to normal again. Did she say anything like that you can expect a spanking when she thinks it’s needed ? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:12:31 11/04/23 Sat Fran and Karin, yes I know I deserved it. You really don't have to tell me that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Again Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:09:52 11/04/23 Sat Where do I start? The last couple of weeks I guess I've been slipping. I guess partly I was mad thjat I had to work on Halloween, so maybe I was acting bratty for a few days, I don't know. I got off work and went out and didn't come back until the next day and missed school. I know Agnes was getting really irritated with me. I've missed some of my chores and have not been helping out and I guess I have been not all that nice to Agnes. So Thursday I did just a few hours at work and when I got home I saw a dining room chair with the hairbrush on it in the middle of the living room. I tried to tell myself that maybe it was just a warning and if I was real nice maybe I could get out of it. I tried and I tried to be helpful and everything but Agnes wasn't playing along and finally she said "We need to have a talk." The talk was with her sitting in the chair and me standing in front of her. I KNEW I was going to get another spanking and I knew it was pointless to try to talk my way out of it, but I did anyway which just ended up with me going over her knees, my skirt over my back and panties at my knees. It was different from the first one because I knew I had it coming and I guess was kind of able to prepare for it but that didn't make it any easier. I think it was a lot slower and longer than the first one. I was hoping that maybe the hairbrush was just there to scare me, but no. My poor butt was already on fire and I was crying my head off, but that hairbrush was way more than her hand. I couldn't believe how much it hurt and of course I begged and pleaded and promised anything, but she just went ahead and beat my butt with it. The hand just really stings and then builds up until your butts on fire, but that hairbrush REALLY hurt. I had a couple of classes on Friday and sitting was just hell. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Again Author: Nyle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:34:12 11/04/23 Sat I do hope you apologized to Agnes after that well deserved session, Livie. Thank you for sharing. Did she put you in the corner afterwards? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Again Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:08:13 11/04/23 Sat Agnes means business. Your spankings are intense. Try to figure out why you started slipping back into old habits that you don't really enjoy and that are not promoting your strengths. Having a really sore bottom in class may be helpful but probably squirming and trying to find a comfortable position is really distracting. Re-read your notes from Friday and see if they are coherent. I hope they are but I predict that they won't make a lot of sense or you didn't even try to take them. You and Agnes may need to review your responsibilities. Failing to meet them is a downer. See if you can update them and if you really can achieve a reasonable level of meeting them. Finally, consider starting maintenance spankings. You might find them very satisfying. Regarding them as "reminder spankings" may put them in a better light! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Again Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:09:26 11/04/23 Sat It’s nice to see how you acceptet your spanking. The first time it overwelmd you came by suprise. You had no time to make up,your mind about it. This time you knew Agnes was annoyed by your behavier. Seeing the chair, you knew what she had in mind and you tried to talk it out of her head but you cooperate and took the spanking. You did the crime and the time, good for you. And yes it hurts like hell, it supose to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Again In spades! Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:05:57 11/04/23 Sat Livie, you have my sympathy totally. Karin_ven is understating how much a hairbrush spanking or the hairbrush portion of a combination hand and hairbrush spanking HURTS when she says "like Hell." It would make almost everyone howl in pain! Especially if the spanks are applied rapidly to the infamous "sit spots." I do agree with her when she notes that the incredible sting is fully intended to feel that way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Again Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:23:15 11/05/23 Sun Finally, something good to read. No but seriously, I know you don't like getting spanked, but I am so envious of you. I wish (I think) I had someone who cared enough to turn me over their knees. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Southern Girl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:43:41 11/10/23 Fri Emmie Sue, I totally agree with you. I want to find someone to hold me accountable for my actions, to spank me when my actions warrant it. I got spanked growing up. Those spankings helped me then, and my gut tells me that spankings could help me again as an adult. I'm not a spanko. Erotic spankings are not my thing. I'm looking for true discipline and punishment. The idea of being spanked again is a little scary, but it's time for me to be a big girl and do what's best for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Robert to Southern Girl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:48:18 11/10/23 Fri Dear Southern Girl, If you are really serious contact me. It's possible that some arrangements could be made. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Southern Girl (to robert) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:43:42 11/13/23 Mon I believe we have spoken by email. If so, you know I'm dead serious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Robert to Southern Girl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:27:44 11/14/23 Tue Yes, since I made this post we have spoken and yes I know you are serious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: CaringThroughAction - SouhernGirl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:36 11/10/23 Fri You are not alone in your interest in potentially having someone hold you accountable. Many young adults still feel a need to have a parental-type figure in their lives. I have mentored two college-aged young women who actually wanted to be disciplined as they were until they left home. I think many young adults feel something is missing because they still need guidance to a degree. Not everyone does but it's okay to feel that. Good luck finding someone. Please let me know if you have any questions. Choose carefully is my advice. Someone who truly cares about you rather than someone who just wants to spank you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Fran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:00:50 11/20/23 Mon Well, Livie, at least now you know exactly what to expect when you misbehave and act like an irresponsible little school girl. Obviously Agnes is a nurturing, maternal figure who you seem to need in your life. She knows what you need and gives it to you when you need it. You don't seem to resent her discipline, as you've never once mentioned resisting or moving out. As painful and embarrassing as a bare bottomed spanking can be at your age, it gives you something to think about when you're about to do something stupid. As does the hairbrush sitting on the dining room table in plain view. You are a very fortunate young lady to have someone take such an interest in your well being and apply loving discipline like Agnes does. Count your blessings young lady.....and behave yourself! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:12:40 02/20/24 Tue Hi. I wouldn't say that I've gotten used to spankings, but I've learned to appreciate them. It's pretty simple, when I brake the rules or act like a diva, I get a spanking. When I know Agnes is going to spank me I don't make quite a fuss or protest much, I just get my spanking and be done with it. Thought I'd check in. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:46:56 02/20/24 Tue Reminds me of a post awhile back from a women who got spanked in the sixties in a similar situation. She only got a couple after the first one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Missy to Livie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:12 02/20/24 Tue Hi Livie, It's good to hear from you again! Also good to hear that you now apprecate getting the spankings and understand that they are only given for your own betterment. As I recall you were not at all happy in the beginning being spanked. Hugs! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:34:33 02/21/24 Wed Good to hear from you again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I got spanked Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:52:54 02/21/24 Wed Livie, It is good hear from you. We are all glad you are still living with Agnes and that life is still going well. For you to continue to get any behavior change benefits from your spankings, they cannot be something you are "used to" or find to be just the "cost of doing business." They have to "really, really hurt." This is just a fact about human nature. Maybe a sad fact? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]