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Subject: New to Spanking Author: James [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:51:07 12/02/24 Mon I am seeing a girl that likes two things: being spanked and having marks. I’ve never dated anyone that liked to be spanked, so I am learning as I go along. One issue I am having is that she does not like to be spanked very hard, so there is never any marks or even redness. She says I am good at spanking, but is becoming more and more disappointed that I’m not leaving marks. I suggested I would need to hit harder for there to be marks, but she shot that idea down immediately. Is there something I am missing here? A technique other than simply hitting harder that would make it more likely to leave redness? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:48:32 12/02/24 Mon Check out a lexan paddle online. On spanking forums lots of mothers in particular have related that the paddle is light and stingy and very effective but far less likely to mark. It allows the spanker to spank much longer without great concern that the lengthly spanking will leave marks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: James [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:54:13 12/03/24 Tue That’s the thing though, she is wanting the marks… [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:31:37 12/03/24 Tue I don't understand. How does she expect you to leave marks but not spank her hard? The 2 kind of go hand in hand. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: James [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:56:00 12/03/24 Tue Yes, I assume there is no way of actually leaving marks without hitting hard. I am hoping there is some sort of secret to leaving redness that I am just not aware of. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:29 12/03/24 Tue I guess you could just punch her in her butt. That would leave a mark, but I'm sure it would hurt. This girl sounds even more fickle than I am. I guess you just need to have a reasonable talk with her about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:24:08 12/03/24 Tue Usually, the slower you go and the more of a warm-up you give, the more they can take. My advise is to spank slow and steady until you feel like she is close to her limit, then stop and massage. Once she is relaxed, start slow and easy again. See how long you can both keep this up. Then when you are ready to end the session, ask her to trust you will stop spanking her before she absolutely has to use a safe word. Then give her a final volley of spanks that pushes her close to having to give in to the sting, but stop before she does. Over time, her tolerance should build. I happen to enjoy spanking a girl with a mild tolerance more than one who can just lay still and take it. Feel good about having a girl that both enjoys and reacts to being spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:39:16 12/03/24 Tue I spank my teens with a Jokari Paddle. It does leave marks and sometimes beside a dark crimson bottom there will appear with orange and purple spots. that tells me that it was a good firm paddling. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking Author: VoR [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:07:10 12/03/24 Tue I take it she has no idea how to get marks from nowhere, but expects you to figure something out? Try this. Take a small and light paddle and, before spanking, brush on a thin coat of paint that is the color she likes best for marks on her bottom, probably in the red tonal family. Spank lightly but quickly before the paint has a chance to dry. She will have nice pretty marks that show precisely where the paddle was applied. I haven't tried this, but the marks should last for awhile. If you use a water soluble paint that washes off easily after drying, that may be preferable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]